yes ive read it in a lot of places . its kind of confusing sometimes. they all seem to run together

I appreciate his efforts too, dynamical. I guess i feel that every one of these effers should rip off his mask and come clean. It's the very least they can do for us, and probably it is the very most they can ever do to compensate their victims--even if that is not why he is doing it.He is the only one I know of who is trying to describe it from the N perspective. I WANT to know what goes on in their faulty psyches. It helps me come to terms with the wreckage of my life. I mean, aren't we all trying to gain insight into what happened to us?

you will gain most of your insight by educating yourself about sociopathy than from a man who lies by nature. sam makes a lot of good points about personality disorders but he has a selfish reason for doing so. money. when I saw the documentary about him ( the one eyes referred to ) they showed what he is really like and how he treats other people. he is a monster and an ego maniac. he treats others like shit and thinks he is better than " normal people ". for some reason it just disturbs me that he try's to come across like he is helping people when he truly could care less about anyone but himself. maybe he just scares the shit out of me, im not exactly sure why. and I hate to see someone profit from creating misery in the lives of those he touches. to me its like he glorifies in being better than everyone else. he is admired for being a narcissist and that gives him power which is something I find very dangerous. he is cruel and people around him just take it because he "talks" about narcissism. its like he is trying to show how intelligent he is compared to others, when I see it as an excuse to be a justified in being a dick. I just don't like to see him get attention and money for being a complete asshole. it shows how no matter how evil one is they are still put on a pedestal because they are seen as " helping others ". giving him attention gives him power and a narcissist with power is very dangerous to others. I don't really know why but he creeps me out and he is a liar and I hate to see him profit off being the scum of the earth. for me my insight came from healing and that began when I met people, like here, who have good kind hearts and truly care about the well being of others. we all need to understand what happened to us I just don't want to take the word of another narcissist or his excuses for being a monster as the truth. he is a wolf in sheep's clothing and by giving him attention we are excusing his nasty behavior. he has a hidden agenda so I just don't really believe a word he says. I guess I just don't like him lol obviously. lol

you are right bella.

http://enpsychopedia.org/index.php/Sam_Vaknin


Sam Vaknin

From Enpsychopedia

In one of his repetitively & compulsivelye posted online articles, Vaknin reveals in his own words the reason he really runs the Narcissism 'Support' Groups all over the net and so on....

"There is nothing to be learned from the answers to these questions because each individual has her own threshold. No, I simply enjoy the momentary ability to inflict traumatic pain (emotional pain - I am not the physical type and will never harm a woman physically). It is as close as I can get to omnipotence. It is the perfect gender revenge.'...

"As a Jew I would have done the same to Nazis. As a victim of a woman, I celebrate with unrestrained glee my ability to degrade women, to humiliate them, to frustrate them, to make them beg for life itself, for they see their (often imagined) relationship with me as life itself. This is why I abstain from sex. This is why I dazzle them with my intellect and charm and wit and knowledge, with unprecedented intrusive interest in their petty, boring, housewivish lives - and then I let go abruptly. At this stage, they are so brittle, so vulnerable that they crash to a million shreds with the crystalline sound of agony."

Read and heed!

Sam V. in "I, Psychopath" on describes that he knows EXACTLY how his bullying tactics affect people:

"You're body is flooded instantly with adrenaline and it's derivatives, like norenephrine. Now when these hormones pervade the bloodstream, you're brain reacts. It shuts down certain centers and activates others. This is called the stress reaction. Or stress syndrome action. Then when the abuse recedes, the adrenaline levels begin to drop. As they drop, the entire system goes into mayhem.

So what bullies usually do...they start and stop, start and stop. That achieves the maximal stress syndrome. And this is the great secret of bullying: never overdo it...small doses...the victim will do the rest."

And he pretends to be a doctor and "advise" victims...


Besides, Vaknin is now a DIAGNOSED PSYCHOPATH - not a Narcissist!

yea , wasn't he married too ? or getting married when I saw that documentary of them both. and they were trying to have a kid or decide weather to have one or not ? that poor girl. an you imagine life with him? well I guess we all can since we have all been there. its so creepy to know they get off on causing so much hurt to someone, it just baffles my mind. ill never fully get it I don't think.

Wow, very interesting. I also started viewing some of the other videos about Narcissism on You Tube. Thanks for the post!