Victims of Psychopaths Community Group
Is he or she a sociopath or psychopath? Think we're only talking about serial killers here? Psychopaths, sociopaths and even narcissists come in every walk of life, every career level, and every socio-economic category.
i made a post here a few weeks ago about the first psychopath i was dealing with . not my crazy family members who have mistreated me (that is complicated and im thinking of a plan how to deal with them ,i have ideas)
but the question is what if your stalker/ psychopathic admirer is a CELEBRITY. Yes i said it celebrity, big name person whos been on national tv and talk shows in every country,magazine covers,radio interviews, guest apparances on tv shows, big fan base and reputation to keep up. almost everyone has heard of who they are, huge amount of fans
i know it sounds beyond weird which is why i didnt say it that the person is famous but i guess they are people too and do interact with friends and family and those they chose to away from the camera. i grew up in nyc so i know dozens of people who work with celebrities etc. i have some family members who worked in the media and befriended big name famous people,attended celebrity events etc... so it is not that foreign to me,i even answered the phone once as a kid growing up when my older sister worked for mtv and befrended an upcoming rock star who later became famous. it was him calling to contact my sister and i talked to him on the phone and told him to call back later.
so its not too unusual to me and people i know to meet, spot a celebrity in public here or interact with them
which is why i cannot tell many people only those who know me and my history of which famous people i have actually talked to in real life, meet and greet or other..
anyways many years ago i had a band i listened to, met them a few times , won meet and greets and other meetings with them such as running into a band member a few times randomly on the street and he remembered who i was and my name and almost every word i said to him years before at the meet and greet , he was able to repeat back to me, he even remembred where i sad i was from and my birthday which i told them due to meeting them a day after my birthday years ago.
its complocated but i ran into them at the movies a few yrs ago they know me by first name basis and remember me each time. i even caught him staring at me when he ran into me at a gift shop in a theatre that used to be ownded by one of my family members. he stopped by and noticed me and was staring at me for about 15 seconds which was odd but i dismissed it as nothing.
it was down the street from the bands concert before the concert. then he later saw me in the lobby and looked at me as if trying to get my attention but i didnt say hello and i looked away and walked somewhere else.
then later that year he ran into me 3 days in a row in different places in public. move theatre, druggstore, outside another store. which i tell myself is total coincidence it seems like coincidence that time.
he was going to talk to me i think but i left quckly got into the car and left. then i noticed he began to do what i see today as try to get my attention and do a game against me , a few days later on his bands website they made a video describing what happened, what was there when i ran into him a few days before. which i thought of as weird like he was trying to hint out to me or get my attention. then talked about how the band will be on a free talk show in the nyc area telling everyone to show up. i think he might have wanted to talk to me again and see me at the talk show event. which i conntected to him describing sneakily the events things that were there when i was alone with him a few days before
i didnt show up to meet him again then because i had an illness he didnt know about. was getting too sick to go places. i tried one more attempt to ask a month later why he made the video and said other things related to when i met him before. refrencing things directly associated with me and what i told him. and he saw me and turned his back to me.
after tat i didnt go to see the band but i stayed home qnd watched from my comp a few videos the band made where they hinted out certain things connected to me or things ive told them when i met them or things that happened the last times i met them. they even mentioned my old membership screen name in the video as another attempt to get my attention.
i was puzzled why they wanted my attention but i got guilt for standing them up, confused by them ,
he even ended up writing a new song about a girl he ran into, describing me and what went on when i ran into him alone and what was there, type of place etc and how she abandoned him etc. exactly what happened with me and him. he sang the new song on the video they put on youtube and i was shocked when i heard the words.
i wrote before about it how weird things happened after that despite me becoming homebound then i got some weird stalker claiming they love me, they were doing a game and seemed to know everything that he would know. told me things that he would know , identifying himself as who he is while going under a fake screen name.
no know else knew the details that he typed to me. only him
anyways he is a musician, did a game against me for almost 3 yrs for fun against me. he is doing a smear campaign against me, trying to make me feel guilty because i didnt go to meet him or do everything he asked me to. hes currently soon putting out a new album with a few songs on it that are definately about me how i hurt him terribly.
he claims he misses me, wants to see me, etc he even told me the lyrics from his new songs before they are recorded and put out in stores or itunes for public to see. which i later read the lyrics booklet and compared it to the song lines he typed to me months before anyone heard the song
he has no shame .he even somehow found my twitter name and used a word i typed on my twitter account as a joke to name his bands ep album last year. copied it from me not giving me 1 dollar of profit from the music
he even copied sentences i typed to him to turn it into lyrics to his new songs that he sold for money.
this all sounds crazy due to it being someone who is famous and should know not to start with people. but i guess even they can have their issues or personality disorder.
he is doing a smear campaign againat me now , i dont even know the full extrent of it. it hasnt all been shown yet . i know he is putting out an album this summer with songs on it trashing me and lying about me how i hurt him and other not nice things. they might even film a music video to the song that slanders me, gaslighting in the lyrics ive read. put it on mtv or vh1 whatever. they even have their new song playing in movie theatres across the us in the preview now
i feel nervous when they announce they will be in new york city, where im from. next week they will have a free show here by a radio station and it creeps me out. but im trying to ignore it.
he even chose a director for their new music video who is a guy who has the same last name as me and i have a rare last name.. but he is not related to me . he is doing different things to get me to notice. you would really have to see what im seeing to know the complete creepyness of the situation.
i know it dosnt sound like something of your every day thing. being stalked/love bombed by a celebrity. but i have ruled it out as coincidence or iagination or anything. i have saved proof etc, phone company records and a police report i made about a stalker but didnt follow up on.
its not a big big a lists celebrity now they are not so famous anymore but most people know who the band is and they have a huge long time devoted fan base and fanclub members some who ive met, hung out with before years back
theyre going to be on talk shows soon like jay leno and others. its hurtful and upsetting, i know it is true. even tho its weird, i have all the evidence, logs saved. ruled it out being anyone else even tho i was hugely skeptical for a while doubting myself saying how could it be etc... but i came to the conclusion after adding up the proof,evidence
now with a national celebrity doing the smear campaign and him taking shots at me insulting me in song lyrics it is horrible i feel powerless that he has a huge audience to bash me to , do his smear campaign to thousands hundreds of thousands maybe in the world.
humiliating. shaming me etc he is going on a world tour this summer to every continent singing his new smear campaign songs about me to bash me. twisting the lyrics with lies accusations against me
its difficult to deal with joe the plumber average guy whos harrasing you or trying to do the s/p game againat you.
but what if its a national celebrity whos terrorizing you ,emotionally abusing you, doing smear campaigns,manipulating and trying to get involved with you/insisting that they want to date you etc
how do i deal with the terrible smear campaign from a singer in a famous band who will go on tv, around the world on tours music videos,magazines singing hurtful songs about you?
they have a huge platform to embarass me with and do games. i tried to ignore it , do no contact when they try to contact me over instant messenger but it is annoyng and upsetting me. im very curious too wha the other songs sound like and what the words are exactly.
he told me mean horrible things telling me he will teach me a lesson etc for using him , other cruel things he did like make fun of my dying grandfather over the instant message and then a year after he died on the same date he filmed the new music video wth the director who has my last name, then bragging on twitter what a wonderful day it is then. sicko things to hurt me.
its getting creepy, i wonder what will happen if i contnue no contact when they try to contact me over the internet. i dont pick up blocked number from my phone anymore because he was calling me but to harass me
he even did something weird he scheduled his band to play 2 concerts in new york city at the same venue where i interviewed them at alone backstage on my 21st birthday . that is where i introduced myself to them, their manager brought me backatage and i interviewed them when the rest of the fans left, told them it was my birthday they asked my age i told them 21
now get this the show will be in june , they are calling it the bands 21st birthday show, what a coincidence. thats where i met them at my 21st birthday.
the next day at the same venue they are doing a concert they call the album release concert the new album )aka smear campaign against me with the lyrics i have already since months ago that they told me over instant messenger) the new album will be released that day.
weird? or what the heck but got my attention. the venue is in my city like 25 minutes from me.. again other ways to get my attention and reel me in. but it sounds scary.
i cant go to concerts anyways but its weird. they keep doing things hoping i respond or something. he kept asking me to send him photos of me when he talked to me on instant messenger. he even asked many times for me to talk to him on one wat webcam. i never did
so maybe they want me to think they miss me alot and neeeed to see me.
they dont understand even the first thing about me and the troubles ive gone through,my medical illness. why bother me.
i responded wrong by talking on instant manager and being duped or doubting myself for a long time, due to my medical disease which made me tired and difficult for me to do things for myself and other stuff. so i had trouble understanding but i saw the light recenly and began to notice whats been happening the entire time
on top of that even tho his band in not hugely famous anymore not a list like tom cruise. they got kicked off their major record label and sucessfully started their own label years ago. put out many albums on it and made it to the top of the billbpoard independant charts
he claims he wants a romance or relationship with me since running into me a few yrs ago . i cannot even be in any relationship.
he is also married which confuses me , he has kids too. but tells me he wants to marry me instead , its weird and i dont know how to deal with a famous person harming you. it is hurtful. i think in my mind him singing songs to sold out venues around the world horrible songs bashing me , gaslighting
maybe he is hoping to meet me again which is why they do most of their concerts in new york each tour and choses venues next door to places ive met him before.
like they will do 1 show in each city and then 4 new york city shows that year on tour
not sure what is going on with him but how should i react to a B OR C LIST CELEBRITY who is bothering me. they were grammy nominees many years ago and former a list celebrities.
but all the other things he did in the past 3 yrs is what the things s do to their victims.
but the question is what if your stalker/ psychopathic admirer is a CELEBRITY. Yes i said it celebrity, big name person whos been on national tv and talk shows in every country,magazine covers,radio interviews, guest apparances on tv shows, big fan base and reputation to keep up. almost everyone has heard of who they are, huge amount of fans
i know it sounds beyond weird which is why i didnt say it that the person is famous but i guess they are people too and do interact with friends and family and those they chose to away from the camera. i grew up in nyc so i know dozens of people who work with celebrities etc. i have some family members who worked in the media and befriended big name famous people,attended celebrity events etc... so it is not that foreign to me,i even answered the phone once as a kid growing up when my older sister worked for mtv and befrended an upcoming rock star who later became famous. it was him calling to contact my sister and i talked to him on the phone and told him to call back later.
so its not too unusual to me and people i know to meet, spot a celebrity in public here or interact with them
which is why i cannot tell many people only those who know me and my history of which famous people i have actually talked to in real life, meet and greet or other..
anyways many years ago i had a band i listened to, met them a few times , won meet and greets and other meetings with them such as running into a band member a few times randomly on the street and he remembered who i was and my name and almost every word i said to him years before at the meet and greet , he was able to repeat back to me, he even remembred where i sad i was from and my birthday which i told them due to meeting them a day after my birthday years ago.
its complocated but i ran into them at the movies a few yrs ago they know me by first name basis and remember me each time. i even caught him staring at me when he ran into me at a gift shop in a theatre that used to be ownded by one of my family members. he stopped by and noticed me and was staring at me for about 15 seconds which was odd but i dismissed it as nothing.
it was down the street from the bands concert before the concert. then he later saw me in the lobby and looked at me as if trying to get my attention but i didnt say hello and i looked away and walked somewhere else.
then later that year he ran into me 3 days in a row in different places in public. move theatre, druggstore, outside another store. which i tell myself is total coincidence it seems like coincidence that time.
he was going to talk to me i think but i left quckly got into the car and left. then i noticed he began to do what i see today as try to get my attention and do a game against me , a few days later on his bands website they made a video describing what happened, what was there when i ran into him a few days before. which i thought of as weird like he was trying to hint out to me or get my attention. then talked about how the band will be on a free talk show in the nyc area telling everyone to show up. i think he might have wanted to talk to me again and see me at the talk show event. which i conntected to him describing sneakily the events things that were there when i was alone with him a few days before
i didnt show up to meet him again then because i had an illness he didnt know about. was getting too sick to go places. i tried one more attempt to ask a month later why he made the video and said other things related to when i met him before. refrencing things directly associated with me and what i told him. and he saw me and turned his back to me.
after tat i didnt go to see the band but i stayed home qnd watched from my comp a few videos the band made where they hinted out certain things connected to me or things ive told them when i met them or things that happened the last times i met them. they even mentioned my old membership screen name in the video as another attempt to get my attention.
i was puzzled why they wanted my attention but i got guilt for standing them up, confused by them ,
he even ended up writing a new song about a girl he ran into, describing me and what went on when i ran into him alone and what was there, type of place etc and how she abandoned him etc. exactly what happened with me and him. he sang the new song on the video they put on youtube and i was shocked when i heard the words.
i wrote before about it how weird things happened after that despite me becoming homebound then i got some weird stalker claiming they love me, they were doing a game and seemed to know everything that he would know. told me things that he would know , identifying himself as who he is while going under a fake screen name.
no know else knew the details that he typed to me. only him
anyways he is a musician, did a game against me for almost 3 yrs for fun against me. he is doing a smear campaign against me, trying to make me feel guilty because i didnt go to meet him or do everything he asked me to. hes currently soon putting out a new album with a few songs on it that are definately about me how i hurt him terribly.
he claims he misses me, wants to see me, etc he even told me the lyrics from his new songs before they are recorded and put out in stores or itunes for public to see. which i later read the lyrics booklet and compared it to the song lines he typed to me months before anyone heard the song
he has no shame .he even somehow found my twitter name and used a word i typed on my twitter account as a joke to name his bands ep album last year. copied it from me not giving me 1 dollar of profit from the music
he even copied sentences i typed to him to turn it into lyrics to his new songs that he sold for money.
this all sounds crazy due to it being someone who is famous and should know not to start with people. but i guess even they can have their issues or personality disorder.
he is doing a smear campaign againat me now , i dont even know the full extrent of it. it hasnt all been shown yet . i know he is putting out an album this summer with songs on it trashing me and lying about me how i hurt him and other not nice things. they might even film a music video to the song that slanders me, gaslighting in the lyrics ive read. put it on mtv or vh1 whatever. they even have their new song playing in movie theatres across the us in the preview now
i feel nervous when they announce they will be in new york city, where im from. next week they will have a free show here by a radio station and it creeps me out. but im trying to ignore it.
he even chose a director for their new music video who is a guy who has the same last name as me and i have a rare last name.. but he is not related to me . he is doing different things to get me to notice. you would really have to see what im seeing to know the complete creepyness of the situation.
i know it dosnt sound like something of your every day thing. being stalked/love bombed by a celebrity. but i have ruled it out as coincidence or iagination or anything. i have saved proof etc, phone company records and a police report i made about a stalker but didnt follow up on.
its not a big big a lists celebrity now they are not so famous anymore but most people know who the band is and they have a huge long time devoted fan base and fanclub members some who ive met, hung out with before years back
theyre going to be on talk shows soon like jay leno and others. its hurtful and upsetting, i know it is true. even tho its weird, i have all the evidence, logs saved. ruled it out being anyone else even tho i was hugely skeptical for a while doubting myself saying how could it be etc... but i came to the conclusion after adding up the proof,evidence
now with a national celebrity doing the smear campaign and him taking shots at me insulting me in song lyrics it is horrible i feel powerless that he has a huge audience to bash me to , do his smear campaign to thousands hundreds of thousands maybe in the world.
humiliating. shaming me etc he is going on a world tour this summer to every continent singing his new smear campaign songs about me to bash me. twisting the lyrics with lies accusations against me
its difficult to deal with joe the plumber average guy whos harrasing you or trying to do the s/p game againat you.
but what if its a national celebrity whos terrorizing you ,emotionally abusing you, doing smear campaigns,manipulating and trying to get involved with you/insisting that they want to date you etc
how do i deal with the terrible smear campaign from a singer in a famous band who will go on tv, around the world on tours music videos,magazines singing hurtful songs about you?
they have a huge platform to embarass me with and do games. i tried to ignore it , do no contact when they try to contact me over instant messenger but it is annoyng and upsetting me. im very curious too wha the other songs sound like and what the words are exactly.
he told me mean horrible things telling me he will teach me a lesson etc for using him , other cruel things he did like make fun of my dying grandfather over the instant message and then a year after he died on the same date he filmed the new music video wth the director who has my last name, then bragging on twitter what a wonderful day it is then. sicko things to hurt me.
its getting creepy, i wonder what will happen if i contnue no contact when they try to contact me over the internet. i dont pick up blocked number from my phone anymore because he was calling me but to harass me
he even did something weird he scheduled his band to play 2 concerts in new york city at the same venue where i interviewed them at alone backstage on my 21st birthday . that is where i introduced myself to them, their manager brought me backatage and i interviewed them when the rest of the fans left, told them it was my birthday they asked my age i told them 21
now get this the show will be in june , they are calling it the bands 21st birthday show, what a coincidence. thats where i met them at my 21st birthday.
the next day at the same venue they are doing a concert they call the album release concert the new album )aka smear campaign against me with the lyrics i have already since months ago that they told me over instant messenger) the new album will be released that day.
weird? or what the heck but got my attention. the venue is in my city like 25 minutes from me.. again other ways to get my attention and reel me in. but it sounds scary.
i cant go to concerts anyways but its weird. they keep doing things hoping i respond or something. he kept asking me to send him photos of me when he talked to me on instant messenger. he even asked many times for me to talk to him on one wat webcam. i never did
so maybe they want me to think they miss me alot and neeeed to see me.
they dont understand even the first thing about me and the troubles ive gone through,my medical illness. why bother me.
i responded wrong by talking on instant manager and being duped or doubting myself for a long time, due to my medical disease which made me tired and difficult for me to do things for myself and other stuff. so i had trouble understanding but i saw the light recenly and began to notice whats been happening the entire time
on top of that even tho his band in not hugely famous anymore not a list like tom cruise. they got kicked off their major record label and sucessfully started their own label years ago. put out many albums on it and made it to the top of the billbpoard independant charts
he claims he wants a romance or relationship with me since running into me a few yrs ago . i cannot even be in any relationship.
he is also married which confuses me , he has kids too. but tells me he wants to marry me instead , its weird and i dont know how to deal with a famous person harming you. it is hurtful. i think in my mind him singing songs to sold out venues around the world horrible songs bashing me , gaslighting
maybe he is hoping to meet me again which is why they do most of their concerts in new york each tour and choses venues next door to places ive met him before.
like they will do 1 show in each city and then 4 new york city shows that year on tour
not sure what is going on with him but how should i react to a B OR C LIST CELEBRITY who is bothering me. they were grammy nominees many years ago and former a list celebrities.
but all the other things he did in the past 3 yrs is what the things s do to their victims.
other things to but after reading about psychopaths and sociopaths he matches up to every symptom it says about psychopaths. he matches it exactly.
and now he is doing the smear campaign looking very upset on purpse to show everyone how much i' hurt him' and how he now has to sing songs about me to help him heal from the terrible emotional trauma i caused him on purpose so the only way to get out the emotions is to sing songs about how horrible i am (smear campaign and gaslighting and playing the victim),
theres different stages of the psychopaths game , smear campaigns are one of them.
he knows what hes doing , he probably got bored and wanted to create drama and it dosnt matter who he starts with because he dosnt care about anyone.
i dont think hes gone crazy or mentally ill, he wants my pity and he is pretending to be terribly hurt while smiling inside watching the drama happen. but he is a psychopath/sociopath and not mentally ill or crazy
he is a cruel person who only cares about himself. hes trying to drive me crazy so that ill lose my temper and be ticked off and angry to make me look like im the idiot, when it is him whos starting with me and preying on my sympathy for him.
i would have no idea how to deal with an emotionally dangerous person.
They say that if someone continue treating someone bad and try to make you feel sorry for them its the closest you come to spot a psychopath. Their pity play. He is playing on your pity. I have seen the pity play in both my sociopaths too. All while they treated me bad. No more.
do psychopaths want to actually love people? but dont know how to because their missing part of the brain responsible for emotions
or are they just cruel jerks who like the idea of not loving or being conserned about anyone.
I do not think sociopaths even want to love, because they dont know what it is to begin with. I dont think they go around thinking "I wish I could love because I know I am different". If they did manage to think this they would have awareness and maybe want help. But the think they are fine the way they are and they like to hurt people and like to see them suffer and they dont care who they harm, so I strongly doubt they ever have any thoughts they wish they could love.