Victims of Psychopaths Community Group
Is he or she a sociopath or psychopath? Think we're only talking about serial killers here? Psychopaths, sociopaths and even narcissists come in every walk of life, every career level, and every socio-economic category.
i made a post here a few weeks ago about the first psychopath i was dealing with . not my crazy family members who have mistreated me (that is complicated and im thinking of a plan how to deal with them ,i have ideas)
but the question is what if your stalker/ psychopathic admirer is a CELEBRITY. Yes i said it celebrity, big name person whos been on national tv and talk shows in every country,magazine covers,radio interviews, guest apparances on tv shows, big fan base and reputation to keep up. almost everyone has heard of who they are, huge amount of fans
i know it sounds beyond weird which is why i didnt say it that the person is famous but i guess they are people too and do interact with friends and family and those they chose to away from the camera. i grew up in nyc so i know dozens of people who work with celebrities etc. i have some family members who worked in the media and befriended big name famous people,attended celebrity events etc... so it is not that foreign to me,i even answered the phone once as a kid growing up when my older sister worked for mtv and befrended an upcoming rock star who later became famous. it was him calling to contact my sister and i talked to him on the phone and told him to call back later.
so its not too unusual to me and people i know to meet, spot a celebrity in public here or interact with them
which is why i cannot tell many people only those who know me and my history of which famous people i have actually talked to in real life, meet and greet or other..
anyways many years ago i had a band i listened to, met them a few times , won meet and greets and other meetings with them such as running into a band member a few times randomly on the street and he remembered who i was and my name and almost every word i said to him years before at the meet and greet , he was able to repeat back to me, he even remembred where i sad i was from and my birthday which i told them due to meeting them a day after my birthday years ago.
its complocated but i ran into them at the movies a few yrs ago they know me by first name basis and remember me each time. i even caught him staring at me when he ran into me at a gift shop in a theatre that used to be ownded by one of my family members. he stopped by and noticed me and was staring at me for about 15 seconds which was odd but i dismissed it as nothing.
it was down the street from the bands concert before the concert. then he later saw me in the lobby and looked at me as if trying to get my attention but i didnt say hello and i looked away and walked somewhere else.
then later that year he ran into me 3 days in a row in different places in public. move theatre, druggstore, outside another store. which i tell myself is total coincidence it seems like coincidence that time.
he was going to talk to me i think but i left quckly got into the car and left. then i noticed he began to do what i see today as try to get my attention and do a game against me , a few days later on his bands website they made a video describing what happened, what was there when i ran into him a few days before. which i thought of as weird like he was trying to hint out to me or get my attention. then talked about how the band will be on a free talk show in the nyc area telling everyone to show up. i think he might have wanted to talk to me again and see me at the talk show event. which i conntected to him describing sneakily the events things that were there when i was alone with him a few days before
i didnt show up to meet him again then because i had an illness he didnt know about. was getting too sick to go places. i tried one more attempt to ask a month later why he made the video and said other things related to when i met him before. refrencing things directly associated with me and what i told him. and he saw me and turned his back to me.
after tat i didnt go to see the band but i stayed home qnd watched from my comp a few videos the band made where they hinted out certain things connected to me or things ive told them when i met them or things that happened the last times i met them. they even mentioned my old membership screen name in the video as another attempt to get my attention.
i was puzzled why they wanted my attention but i got guilt for standing them up, confused by them ,
he even ended up writing a new song about a girl he ran into, describing me and what went on when i ran into him alone and what was there, type of place etc and how she abandoned him etc. exactly what happened with me and him. he sang the new song on the video they put on youtube and i was shocked when i heard the words.
i wrote before about it how weird things happened after that despite me becoming homebound then i got some weird stalker claiming they love me, they were doing a game and seemed to know everything that he would know. told me things that he would know , identifying himself as who he is while going under a fake screen name.
no know else knew the details that he typed to me. only him
anyways he is a musician, did a game against me for almost 3 yrs for fun against me. he is doing a smear campaign against me, trying to make me feel guilty because i didnt go to meet him or do everything he asked me to. hes currently soon putting out a new album with a few songs on it that are definately about me how i hurt him terribly.
he claims he misses me, wants to see me, etc he even told me the lyrics from his new songs before they are recorded and put out in stores or itunes for public to see. which i later read the lyrics booklet and compared it to the song lines he typed to me months before anyone heard the song
he has no shame .he even somehow found my twitter name and used a word i typed on my twitter account as a joke to name his bands ep album last year. copied it from me not giving me 1 dollar of profit from the music
he even copied sentences i typed to him to turn it into lyrics to his new songs that he sold for money.
this all sounds crazy due to it being someone who is famous and should know not to start with people. but i guess even they can have their issues or personality disorder.
he is doing a smear campaign againat me now , i dont even know the full extrent of it. it hasnt all been shown yet . i know he is putting out an album this summer with songs on it trashing me and lying about me how i hurt him and other not nice things. they might even film a music video to the song that slanders me, gaslighting in the lyrics ive read. put it on mtv or vh1 whatever. they even have their new song playing in movie theatres across the us in the preview now
i feel nervous when they announce they will be in new york city, where im from. next week they will have a free show here by a radio station and it creeps me out. but im trying to ignore it.
he even chose a director for their new music video who is a guy who has the same last name as me and i have a rare last name.. but he is not related to me . he is doing different things to get me to notice. you would really have to see what im seeing to know the complete creepyness of the situation.
i know it dosnt sound like something of your every day thing. being stalked/love bombed by a celebrity. but i have ruled it out as coincidence or iagination or anything. i have saved proof etc, phone company records and a police report i made about a stalker but didnt follow up on.
its not a big big a lists celebrity now they are not so famous anymore but most people know who the band is and they have a huge long time devoted fan base and fanclub members some who ive met, hung out with before years back
theyre going to be on talk shows soon like jay leno and others. its hurtful and upsetting, i know it is true. even tho its weird, i have all the evidence, logs saved. ruled it out being anyone else even tho i was hugely skeptical for a while doubting myself saying how could it be etc... but i came to the conclusion after adding up the proof,evidence
now with a national celebrity doing the smear campaign and him taking shots at me insulting me in song lyrics it is horrible i feel powerless that he has a huge audience to bash me to , do his smear campaign to thousands hundreds of thousands maybe in the world.
humiliating. shaming me etc he is going on a world tour this summer to every continent singing his new smear campaign songs about me to bash me. twisting the lyrics with lies accusations against me
its difficult to deal with joe the plumber average guy whos harrasing you or trying to do the s/p game againat you.
but what if its a national celebrity whos terrorizing you ,emotionally abusing you, doing smear campaigns,manipulating and trying to get involved with you/insisting that they want to date you etc
how do i deal with the terrible smear campaign from a singer in a famous band who will go on tv, around the world on tours music videos,magazines singing hurtful songs about you?
they have a huge platform to embarass me with and do games. i tried to ignore it , do no contact when they try to contact me over instant messenger but it is annoyng and upsetting me. im very curious too wha the other songs sound like and what the words are exactly.
he told me mean horrible things telling me he will teach me a lesson etc for using him , other cruel things he did like make fun of my dying grandfather over the instant message and then a year after he died on the same date he filmed the new music video wth the director who has my last name, then bragging on twitter what a wonderful day it is then. sicko things to hurt me.
its getting creepy, i wonder what will happen if i contnue no contact when they try to contact me over the internet. i dont pick up blocked number from my phone anymore because he was calling me but to harass me
he even did something weird he scheduled his band to play 2 concerts in new york city at the same venue where i interviewed them at alone backstage on my 21st birthday . that is where i introduced myself to them, their manager brought me backatage and i interviewed them when the rest of the fans left, told them it was my birthday they asked my age i told them 21
now get this the show will be in june , they are calling it the bands 21st birthday show, what a coincidence. thats where i met them at my 21st birthday.
the next day at the same venue they are doing a concert they call the album release concert the new album )aka smear campaign against me with the lyrics i have already since months ago that they told me over instant messenger) the new album will be released that day.
weird? or what the heck but got my attention. the venue is in my city like 25 minutes from me.. again other ways to get my attention and reel me in. but it sounds scary.
i cant go to concerts anyways but its weird. they keep doing things hoping i respond or something. he kept asking me to send him photos of me when he talked to me on instant messenger. he even asked many times for me to talk to him on one wat webcam. i never did
so maybe they want me to think they miss me alot and neeeed to see me.
they dont understand even the first thing about me and the troubles ive gone through,my medical illness. why bother me.
i responded wrong by talking on instant manager and being duped or doubting myself for a long time, due to my medical disease which made me tired and difficult for me to do things for myself and other stuff. so i had trouble understanding but i saw the light recenly and began to notice whats been happening the entire time
on top of that even tho his band in not hugely famous anymore not a list like tom cruise. they got kicked off their major record label and sucessfully started their own label years ago. put out many albums on it and made it to the top of the billbpoard independant charts
he claims he wants a romance or relationship with me since running into me a few yrs ago . i cannot even be in any relationship.
he is also married which confuses me , he has kids too. but tells me he wants to marry me instead , its weird and i dont know how to deal with a famous person harming you. it is hurtful. i think in my mind him singing songs to sold out venues around the world horrible songs bashing me , gaslighting
maybe he is hoping to meet me again which is why they do most of their concerts in new york each tour and choses venues next door to places ive met him before.
like they will do 1 show in each city and then 4 new york city shows that year on tour
not sure what is going on with him but how should i react to a B OR C LIST CELEBRITY who is bothering me. they were grammy nominees many years ago and former a list celebrities.
but all the other things he did in the past 3 yrs is what the things s do to their victims.
but the question is what if your stalker/ psychopathic admirer is a CELEBRITY. Yes i said it celebrity, big name person whos been on national tv and talk shows in every country,magazine covers,radio interviews, guest apparances on tv shows, big fan base and reputation to keep up. almost everyone has heard of who they are, huge amount of fans
i know it sounds beyond weird which is why i didnt say it that the person is famous but i guess they are people too and do interact with friends and family and those they chose to away from the camera. i grew up in nyc so i know dozens of people who work with celebrities etc. i have some family members who worked in the media and befriended big name famous people,attended celebrity events etc... so it is not that foreign to me,i even answered the phone once as a kid growing up when my older sister worked for mtv and befrended an upcoming rock star who later became famous. it was him calling to contact my sister and i talked to him on the phone and told him to call back later.
so its not too unusual to me and people i know to meet, spot a celebrity in public here or interact with them
which is why i cannot tell many people only those who know me and my history of which famous people i have actually talked to in real life, meet and greet or other..
anyways many years ago i had a band i listened to, met them a few times , won meet and greets and other meetings with them such as running into a band member a few times randomly on the street and he remembered who i was and my name and almost every word i said to him years before at the meet and greet , he was able to repeat back to me, he even remembred where i sad i was from and my birthday which i told them due to meeting them a day after my birthday years ago.
its complocated but i ran into them at the movies a few yrs ago they know me by first name basis and remember me each time. i even caught him staring at me when he ran into me at a gift shop in a theatre that used to be ownded by one of my family members. he stopped by and noticed me and was staring at me for about 15 seconds which was odd but i dismissed it as nothing.
it was down the street from the bands concert before the concert. then he later saw me in the lobby and looked at me as if trying to get my attention but i didnt say hello and i looked away and walked somewhere else.
then later that year he ran into me 3 days in a row in different places in public. move theatre, druggstore, outside another store. which i tell myself is total coincidence it seems like coincidence that time.
he was going to talk to me i think but i left quckly got into the car and left. then i noticed he began to do what i see today as try to get my attention and do a game against me , a few days later on his bands website they made a video describing what happened, what was there when i ran into him a few days before. which i thought of as weird like he was trying to hint out to me or get my attention. then talked about how the band will be on a free talk show in the nyc area telling everyone to show up. i think he might have wanted to talk to me again and see me at the talk show event. which i conntected to him describing sneakily the events things that were there when i was alone with him a few days before
i didnt show up to meet him again then because i had an illness he didnt know about. was getting too sick to go places. i tried one more attempt to ask a month later why he made the video and said other things related to when i met him before. refrencing things directly associated with me and what i told him. and he saw me and turned his back to me.
after tat i didnt go to see the band but i stayed home qnd watched from my comp a few videos the band made where they hinted out certain things connected to me or things ive told them when i met them or things that happened the last times i met them. they even mentioned my old membership screen name in the video as another attempt to get my attention.
i was puzzled why they wanted my attention but i got guilt for standing them up, confused by them ,
he even ended up writing a new song about a girl he ran into, describing me and what went on when i ran into him alone and what was there, type of place etc and how she abandoned him etc. exactly what happened with me and him. he sang the new song on the video they put on youtube and i was shocked when i heard the words.
i wrote before about it how weird things happened after that despite me becoming homebound then i got some weird stalker claiming they love me, they were doing a game and seemed to know everything that he would know. told me things that he would know , identifying himself as who he is while going under a fake screen name.
no know else knew the details that he typed to me. only him
anyways he is a musician, did a game against me for almost 3 yrs for fun against me. he is doing a smear campaign against me, trying to make me feel guilty because i didnt go to meet him or do everything he asked me to. hes currently soon putting out a new album with a few songs on it that are definately about me how i hurt him terribly.
he claims he misses me, wants to see me, etc he even told me the lyrics from his new songs before they are recorded and put out in stores or itunes for public to see. which i later read the lyrics booklet and compared it to the song lines he typed to me months before anyone heard the song
he has no shame .he even somehow found my twitter name and used a word i typed on my twitter account as a joke to name his bands ep album last year. copied it from me not giving me 1 dollar of profit from the music
he even copied sentences i typed to him to turn it into lyrics to his new songs that he sold for money.
this all sounds crazy due to it being someone who is famous and should know not to start with people. but i guess even they can have their issues or personality disorder.
he is doing a smear campaign againat me now , i dont even know the full extrent of it. it hasnt all been shown yet . i know he is putting out an album this summer with songs on it trashing me and lying about me how i hurt him and other not nice things. they might even film a music video to the song that slanders me, gaslighting in the lyrics ive read. put it on mtv or vh1 whatever. they even have their new song playing in movie theatres across the us in the preview now
i feel nervous when they announce they will be in new york city, where im from. next week they will have a free show here by a radio station and it creeps me out. but im trying to ignore it.
he even chose a director for their new music video who is a guy who has the same last name as me and i have a rare last name.. but he is not related to me . he is doing different things to get me to notice. you would really have to see what im seeing to know the complete creepyness of the situation.
i know it dosnt sound like something of your every day thing. being stalked/love bombed by a celebrity. but i have ruled it out as coincidence or iagination or anything. i have saved proof etc, phone company records and a police report i made about a stalker but didnt follow up on.
its not a big big a lists celebrity now they are not so famous anymore but most people know who the band is and they have a huge long time devoted fan base and fanclub members some who ive met, hung out with before years back
theyre going to be on talk shows soon like jay leno and others. its hurtful and upsetting, i know it is true. even tho its weird, i have all the evidence, logs saved. ruled it out being anyone else even tho i was hugely skeptical for a while doubting myself saying how could it be etc... but i came to the conclusion after adding up the proof,evidence
now with a national celebrity doing the smear campaign and him taking shots at me insulting me in song lyrics it is horrible i feel powerless that he has a huge audience to bash me to , do his smear campaign to thousands hundreds of thousands maybe in the world.
humiliating. shaming me etc he is going on a world tour this summer to every continent singing his new smear campaign songs about me to bash me. twisting the lyrics with lies accusations against me
its difficult to deal with joe the plumber average guy whos harrasing you or trying to do the s/p game againat you.
but what if its a national celebrity whos terrorizing you ,emotionally abusing you, doing smear campaigns,manipulating and trying to get involved with you/insisting that they want to date you etc
how do i deal with the terrible smear campaign from a singer in a famous band who will go on tv, around the world on tours music videos,magazines singing hurtful songs about you?
they have a huge platform to embarass me with and do games. i tried to ignore it , do no contact when they try to contact me over instant messenger but it is annoyng and upsetting me. im very curious too wha the other songs sound like and what the words are exactly.
he told me mean horrible things telling me he will teach me a lesson etc for using him , other cruel things he did like make fun of my dying grandfather over the instant message and then a year after he died on the same date he filmed the new music video wth the director who has my last name, then bragging on twitter what a wonderful day it is then. sicko things to hurt me.
its getting creepy, i wonder what will happen if i contnue no contact when they try to contact me over the internet. i dont pick up blocked number from my phone anymore because he was calling me but to harass me
he even did something weird he scheduled his band to play 2 concerts in new york city at the same venue where i interviewed them at alone backstage on my 21st birthday . that is where i introduced myself to them, their manager brought me backatage and i interviewed them when the rest of the fans left, told them it was my birthday they asked my age i told them 21
now get this the show will be in june , they are calling it the bands 21st birthday show, what a coincidence. thats where i met them at my 21st birthday.
the next day at the same venue they are doing a concert they call the album release concert the new album )aka smear campaign against me with the lyrics i have already since months ago that they told me over instant messenger) the new album will be released that day.
weird? or what the heck but got my attention. the venue is in my city like 25 minutes from me.. again other ways to get my attention and reel me in. but it sounds scary.
i cant go to concerts anyways but its weird. they keep doing things hoping i respond or something. he kept asking me to send him photos of me when he talked to me on instant messenger. he even asked many times for me to talk to him on one wat webcam. i never did
so maybe they want me to think they miss me alot and neeeed to see me.
they dont understand even the first thing about me and the troubles ive gone through,my medical illness. why bother me.
i responded wrong by talking on instant manager and being duped or doubting myself for a long time, due to my medical disease which made me tired and difficult for me to do things for myself and other stuff. so i had trouble understanding but i saw the light recenly and began to notice whats been happening the entire time
on top of that even tho his band in not hugely famous anymore not a list like tom cruise. they got kicked off their major record label and sucessfully started their own label years ago. put out many albums on it and made it to the top of the billbpoard independant charts
he claims he wants a romance or relationship with me since running into me a few yrs ago . i cannot even be in any relationship.
he is also married which confuses me , he has kids too. but tells me he wants to marry me instead , its weird and i dont know how to deal with a famous person harming you. it is hurtful. i think in my mind him singing songs to sold out venues around the world horrible songs bashing me , gaslighting
maybe he is hoping to meet me again which is why they do most of their concerts in new york each tour and choses venues next door to places ive met him before.
like they will do 1 show in each city and then 4 new york city shows that year on tour
not sure what is going on with him but how should i react to a B OR C LIST CELEBRITY who is bothering me. they were grammy nominees many years ago and former a list celebrities.
but all the other things he did in the past 3 yrs is what the things s do to their victims.
he will type to me things on the internet only for me to hear them 2 days later live in a speech that day made by that band member which was live streamed after the guy on the net told me those exact things. he told me one time that his shoe broke and that he needed to find an emergency shoe store to go to and he bought a new pair of black shoes that day. and a day later someone on twitter posted that she saw this band member at the shoe store she worked at and then he is seen in new photos after that with new black shoes.
another time he was chatting to me on the net for many hours while visiting another country for a few days for concerts. he must have gotten the time zone wrong there, his hours of chatting to me would change whenever this band was visiting other countries with different time zones. anyways the next day he told me he did something funny,that he missed a job interview because he forgot about it due to chatting to me being distracted. then i see a new video by the band where the other band members showed up for the interview that day and he was not there and the interviewer asked where the other band member is and they told them that he would not be there today and the cracked up as if something funny was going on and then claiming he was eaten by a bear.
many other coincidences too . there was a black labrador dog that he didnt want to go near when i ran into him by the store , and after that they began to make many random out of place comments about dogs, they took photos of a stuffed animal black lab dog for their tour photos on the webpage . they put photos of a black lab on the ep album that had songs i think might be about me due to them typing the lyrics to me over instant message before any cd was out
he told me the series of events that happened, telling me that my phone rang and i walked away from him to go talk to the phone ignoring him then ran into a car and left and he had to walk back on his own to where he was going to the bank by the row of trees at the sidewalk. and about the dog that was there i myself didnt tell anyone about what happened or that i ran into him that day only he or anyone who told would know this. i realized later on there is a bank at the end of the block from there.
how would a total random stranger on the internet know these details coincidentally if its not him and i didnt tell anyone else the details.
the guy on the net told me a bunch of other coinciental things related to the band like telling me that they like canada when the band was about to leave for a tour in canada afew days later.
he told me that he likes jamaica and asked me randomly if ive been to jamaica and stopped talking to me for about a month when the band member wrote on th band webpage that he is going away on vacation.to jamaica.
last year he wrote to me that he is not going to talk to me anymore and that he is getting back together with his wife, and then he pmed me again 2 months later telling me he misses me then talking to me again claiming he is not married anymore but oddly 9 months after the time he leftfor the 2 months of not talking to me the band members wife had a baby.
this guy on the internet has alot of big coincidences in common with the band memeber who i suspect it is
knows everything he knows. the band mentioned my internet screen name that i talk to the strange guy on,on the bands twitter page and in their newsletter.
he made up some dumb name claiming to be from india and that his name is shaheen, no one from india would know the things he told me about me,. he told me he would like to meet up with me in a school which i thought he was joking because he claims is from another country and i dont travel.. then a few months later the band anounces that they will be singing at an event at an elementary school in new york here and i checked the flyer for the event and the music director at that schools last name is shaheen .
either many coincidences or someone who knows things the band knows and their lyrics in the time the band is writing the lyric, is messing with me, mind games.
theres other things too which i wrote down but its late here and cannot remember the others but i have to check my email account, i coped and pasted a few of the things he wrote to me.
it seems suspicous, even if it is a big coincidence or isnt a coincidence. who would follow and stalk me on the internet telling me personal details that i didnt tell anyone. ?
im convinced its him otherwise it is the biggest coincidence that happened in my life. i feel bad tho that i chatted with them /,carried on an internet relationship' with the person for almost 3 yrs. he even messaged me a few days ago he types things to get me to answer him, i even chatted with him last week. but i ignored his messages in the last few days
he does things to get me to have pity on him or want to explain myself in order to get me to chat with him again which has happened a bunch of times after i told him i cannot talk to him anymore. he would tell me he loves me every day over the internet wich is weird and told me to tell him it back, which i found out reading an article about s is a way for him to check if he is controlling me
i mean i was thinking what could he want exactly,did i do something wrong, is he depressed and misses me because i didnt go to see he him the past 2 yrs when he asked me to meet him, is he the one who is hurting, is he not able to live without seeing me which is why he asked me almost every day that he chatted to me if i can go on webcam to see me how i look or send photos to him. i never did . then he told me he is only chatting to me because he misses me and wants to see me on webcamera (which could be a trap of some other plan of his).
or is he looking for a not smart person to do a game against and he found me as the one because i cannot defend myself and have my own things to worry about.
is he severely depressed from me abandoning him that day and him not seeing me again, i have no pics of me for him to see on the net, not on facebook either. maybe he cannot go on in life without me or without seeing me etc i dont know i want thinking what is the thing.
its upsetting because he is a singer/sometimes lead singer in my all time favorite band since i was a young teenager.. like 13 yrs old is when i became a fan of the band they have been a huge inspiration to me and sound track to many times in my life. i had all their cds i was a fanclub member wich is how i got to interview them by winning the fanclub contest. i was on their street team one time a long time ago.
i didnt know he is like this he seemed nice and okay but i did see some red flags when i met him but i made excuses for it and told myself its nothing.
now thats like hell for your favorite band member of all time, to cause you trouble, follow you and lie to you over the net and carry on an illegal relationship with you in their mind. he is legally married still what exaclt does he need contact with me for. he dosnt tell me he wants to be my friend he is telling me on the net that he loves me and other disgusting personal things and how he wants to date me and me to marry him and take care of his kids. that sounds like he is betraying his marriage, even if it is over the internet or lying to me and games. he claims he is in love with me
then it is terrible for your favorite band to bash you and mistreat you by writing horrible jerk lyrics about you accusing you and insulting you in their songs with ovious lies and claims that i hurt him ,
for a biig music fan that is worst possible scenario. a nightmare to be terrorized and put down in songs and not by any singer but by the most inspiring band in your life. their past songs got me through difficult times etc i even made friends the year i went to college because 5 other girls at my school were fans of them too.i dont talk to themanymore
ive thought about suiing due to humiliation and personal suffering ,nervousness but i read others couldnt sue because it has to have their exact name in the song like it has to say 'susie peterson (fake name i made up) isa jerk lalalalala' not just suzie or susan is the jerk . but im not sure it would be a hassle for me to speak to a lawyer
i got furious when i heard a few of the songs sofar because its twisting the truth and accusing, not right at all,shameful..
if i cutt off any internet contact with this person do you think this will stop because they wont know anything else more about me?
if it is them i have empathy for them like maybe they seem upset due to me abandoning them , did i do something wrong to them? im thinking what the problem is why they need to contact me after me runing away from the to disappear when i used to go to alot of their shows in the past . any rational reason that they re compelled to contact me and need to talk to me every day?he did seem very upset in some of the band interviews, youtube videos and pics since then. he even was crying on the live internet video they made of him writing the song about the girl who abandoned him near the dog,trees etc everything. followed that up with a song of how i broke his heart
they are married, he has a bunch of young children. i have no idea why i should talk to him. it is confusing,i am still wondering what the issue is this whole time,how can i help him is he miserable because i left him without telling him anything , unless he is not lying and does want to divorce his wife and marry me instead which i cannot do. but that could be a game against me from day 1. to create problems and drama for me and everyone and then get everyone he knows to agree that yes she is a mean jerk sicko cruel idiot and deranged weirdo , which i think is what happens after smear campaigns everyone feels bad for them the victim and laughs at and is suspicous of the real victim. he could be telling his children that i tried to break up his family etc who knows what stories they tell
i think he told his wife that i want to steal him from her because she has been acting strange on twitter posting things about the other woman in her husbands life or posting a photo of a book about a guy who cheated on their wife. then calling him her boyfriend and other weird or joking things about cheating. who
knows
i hope he goes away if i dont answer him on the net. but that doesnt make the songs go away. i could chose to not listen to them or not buy the new cd but it will be out in 2 monhts people will be listening to the songs that is not good. it is not honest tho to write songs about bullgarbage with no truth only imagination guesses or slander against someone.
what will he do if i dont answer him,is that what he wanted ? to get rid of me the entire time by doing a game ,
or was i a random person available to pick on At the wrong place, wrong time
why am i worried and upset and very hurt over it i dont know. why are people mean ?
will he leave me alone if i dont talk to him? each bully is dfferent. i have thought about emailing their bands official email adress on their webpsge or calling their agent or whaetever to ask them directly what is going on how can i help them, and to confirm if it is them on the net and why have they been chattng to me while confusing me. but if this is a sick game against me for fun and he never actually wanted anything
then wouldnt it be somehow dangerous for me to contact them by their official phone and email. would it be too dangerous for me to directly contact him at the bands number or email or in the future if and when i can go out and am not disabled, to go meet him to ask what the trouble was the entire time. the whole thing witht he internet chatting is humiliating tho and he said bizarre and perverted sicko things to me over the net.how would i ever meet him again and say hi its me the girl you flirted to , inapropriate texted on the net. how do i pretend or say it wasnt me if he thinks or knows it was me who he chatted to.
he obviousely has my phone number he could have called me or emailed me telling me directly who he is and what he wants to ask me and what the problem is. instead of doing a weird stalking thing to confuse me on the net.
it seems weird and not socially normal situation, i wouldnt chat with other people i knew on instant messenger with them beng anonymous tricking me and weird internet chat.
another thing is if it is him then it means he would probably have had to hack my computer to find out my intstant messenger names. i didnt give the messenger name to anyone. which is another possibility so i do need to get help from someone to get anti virus software installed. i dont know what the extent is that he stalked me maybe only internet chatting maybe he sent me a virus in an email , i dont have much knowledge on how computers work, or maybe he looked me up on spokeo or did a background search to get my screen name. but that is speculating , hypotethetical , i dont know what he did exactly
i dont have good social skills now due to an illness ive been going through for a few years,not much human contact too so i have no idea how to deal with this. i dont know how to respond normally or how i would have before i got sick,
maybe i should have asked for advice from others sooner before things escalated or before he was able to chat to me on the net. i dont even know what the first step should have been , didnt understand much anyways.
but maybe if im vulerable for the time being with my own troubles then i should avoid social situations , make sure i am not interacting with a faker on the net or anyone who might exploit me. be more selective of which people i allow to assosciate with me while i cannot defend myself .
the thing is i already have too many issues to worry about now for the past few years then he causes me to worry about more things added to the things bothering me. he is bothering someone who is sufffering too much already.
everything else ive gone through and then while im dealing with serious things then an internet bully /stalker.
its not what is supposed to be and it is not helping me to be happy and improve things.
I hope you can move on from him and this mess he/they create, it sounds weird. As long as he is married, his words mean nothing. You deserve better than than that. You deserve love and respect. He is not a respectful man.
anyone who even cared one percent about me would have either left me alone or visited me with a get well card or something and help me cheer up because ive been going through a very painful life threatening illness almost died a few times from it. i need supportive people in my life with respect not bullies who take advantage of me becoming disabled a few years ago due to a serious illness.
i didnt know what to do or even understand much of what he was doing because of neuroligical side effects and neurological impairments that happened to me because of my infection. i wasnt able to functon at all suddenly. have had some trouble thinking and memory and speech problems when my infection and rashes/boils are at the worst,along with that i lost my ability to understand social situations well or how to interact with people so i figured it was safe to sit at home on the computer and talk to strangers on the internet who i dont have to be real friends with or ever meet.
ive been fighting to survive physically which that alone is very upsetting. i had seizures and lost my speech ability sometimes. i couldnt stand up sometimes or fell down due to the neuroligical side effects.
i heve to follow up with a neuroligist too because i might have had a mild silent tia stroke too due to certain symptoms i had, i have to rule that out. i had to change my entire daily lifestyle which left me home most of the time infront of the computer tired,sleeping eating nothing to do but not well enough to do much
which meant ive been available every day to chat to by them , alot of times where i was too tired or confused to understand what is happening.
yes i was wondering and thinking about everyone else ive ever known and if they would treat me like this or do this to me and creepily chat to me on the net inapropriately while hiding their identity but dropping clues and doing games to make me doubt myself or think im going out of my mind.
but i didnt know what was normal here. ive been isolated with no real friends , my family dosnt talk to me they dont get along with me or seem to care. so i guess i would talk to anyone who shows up telling me they want to talk to me online.
yes this person does seem twisted and cruel and selfish and like they dont have social skills. the whole time i was wondering if it was me who hurt them even while ive been dying from an illness that my doctors couldnt treat because every medicine didnt work and landing in the emergency room . maybe i needed anything else to think of besides my illness. so i chose to be nice to a stalker . i dont know why
they even made me feel guilty for not sending them my photo on the net or any video of me. they kept asking and i dont want to take photos of me if i look horrible due to being sick. my appearance got bad, i gained weight look tired, puffy face, rash and frumpy etc i need a makeover. i also feel threatened about sending my pic over the internet to anyone especially a creepy person who is pretending to be someone else. i wouldnt trust sending my photo to a weird man on the internet. i think it is not safe to do
yes it is weird he is creepy and not normal any intention towards me was probably not right since day 1. he is probably cruel and wants to hurt people. i peiced together recently what hes been doing to me and it makes me think he has some mental disorder. but i think he tried to tell me that i made him crazy by being gone from his life and not meeting or marrying him, that it is my fault i hurt him so much that it made him lose his mind and behave strange, i dont think thats true. he wants me to feel responsible and guilty. my guess is he was probably crazy a long time before i ever met him and that he is good at acting normal. he seemed completely normal and very nice the first few times i met him when i was younger. probably an actor because s/p are nice and normal people to most of the public before anyone knows them
there is unecessary drama being created and i think he thinks he knows me but he does not. im a greater person then he will realize. but i am not his girlfriend or wife,im a random girl from many states away who is a music fan that happened to meet him a few times. i didnt go to school with him and dont personally know him. even tho they seemed nice like nice people to know but i dont know them personally like as their family members and friends . but as of now maybe by this dumb situation and by me becoming disabled with an illness at the wrong time i got to know the real him by seeing how he treats me.
i feel like everything went to hell. like a reality gone wrong, worst case scenario happened
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