Victims of Narcissistic Mothers Community Group
Have you suffered because of a mother who you were never good enough for, that only pointed out your weaknesses, who ignored and neglected you? This group is for people who have suffered at the hands of the mother that should have loved them. Here you can be free to discuss your problems, frustrations and fears. We understand because we have been there too. Our goal is to...
It took me a long time to come to the realization I have a narcissistic mother. I have read the following and found I am not to blame for many things that happened when I was a child. Maybe they can help you too.
http://parrishmiller.com/narcissists.html
http://psychcentral.com/lib/2010/narcissistic-mothers/
http://gloriarubio278.hubpages.com/hub/Do-You-Have-a-Narcissistic-Mother
http://parrishmiller.com/narcissists.html
http://psychcentral.com/lib/2010/narcissistic-mothers/
http://gloriarubio278.hubpages.com/hub/Do-You-Have-a-Narcissistic-Mother
It took a random FB post by a woman who'd in fact friends with my mother to lead me to narcissism.
It was a post on narcissistic normal behaviors, and then people with NPD.
My jaw dropped.
I continued on to youtube of course, why use Dr google, when you can employ Dr youtube.
And I saw the following 24 videos that brought me to tears time and again with their validation of my life.
Then for me, the self doubt; how can she meet every single one of these criteria, surely she should only meet some of them, am I creating this, am I tricking myself to believe that it is descriptive of my entire childhood.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eIk1Q8osv8Q
I sent the link to my Golden child brother, he had his wife respond that they won't be getting involved. I think he's Narc too, but I don't really know could be deep denial. God help them.
Another link which until 5mins in was like listening to someone describe my own life and again, my self doubt. How can it be that someone else could possibly have had such a similar experience in such different circumstances, am I mentally unstable and creating this in my own head??
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Dwef8LvnNOE