Twins, Triplets & More Support Group
Triplets & More","This community connects people seeking information and experiences about multiple births. Different names for multiple birth are used, depending on the actual multiple. Common multiples are two and three, known as twins and triplets respectively. Share your thoughts and find whatever support you need."
If you plan to have them in the same room for extended years I would start them together. They need to get used to each others noises. My boys are 2 and one can be screaming bloody murder in the middle of the night and the other one sleeps right through it. It would be torture to have them both woken up all the time!
Once they arrive, do what you are comfortable with and what makes sense to you. Don't worry about what your friends say, they aren't living with you. Always do what you need to for your own family!