I know that I can be frantic and soooo angry when i come out of a flashback, or am surrounded by triggers, or on the verge of a flashback. I am just wondering how many of you also get that anger, and how you handle it?
I get it too.....can actually feel my blood pressure going up and myself going into what I call the "hunter-kill" mode...though the reality is I'd do nothing more than scream profanities, but it's the thought that counts....as for what I do, the biggest thing for me is to change my surroundings....even if it's just to go to another room in the house i.e. if I'm in bed, I get up and go to my computer and play a mindless game for a while, or surf the net, or type in my journal til I get tired again; or I run a hot bath and read (science fiction-fantasy I like). I also tell myself over and over again.."it's not happening NOW, your anger is pointless" NOT as a put down of my feelings, but to re-center myself and maybe let myself feel something else......
I feel the anger too. I feel the feelings as if it were actually happening all over again. My body even reacts "physically" as if it were happening all over again. I just try to remind myself that this is part of the abuse that I went through and that it is just a trigger and it will pass. It usually passes fairly quickly for me.
I am new to this site. I have PTSD triggers and had a huge trigger that dropped me into a serious depression. I was already really stressed out. That was the last thing I needed to happen :/
Strategies I use are. 1) reminding myself it is a trigger and that I am OK.
2) also I remove myself out of the environment where the trigger occurred and give my
Body some space and time to de-stress in a safe n quiet environment.
3) soothing music also helps to refocus your mind to the present moment
4) I haven't done this, but somebody suggested blowing bubbles. That is a really clever
Way to do breathing exercises to decrease anxiety and panic attacks. You can even
Just pretend to blow them. I'll keep this in mind.
Hope this helps.
Hope it makes sense!! ~_o
Strategies I use are. 1) reminding myself it is a trigger and that I am OK.
2) also I remove myself out of the environment where the trigger occurred and give my
Body some space and time to de-stress in a safe n quiet environment.
3) soothing music also helps to refocus your mind to the present moment
4) I haven't done this, but somebody suggested blowing bubbles. That is a really clever
Way to do breathing exercises to decrease anxiety and panic attacks. You can even
Just pretend to blow them. I'll keep this in mind.
I simply remind myself, "This too shall pass!"