I think because you're in school you should continue to be nice to her and be her friend. That doesn't mean that you have to spend all your time with her, but I don't think it's fair to cut her off unless she has done something mean to you. What do you mean she cursed you off?

Also, some of my best friends have completely different interests, we like different music, we like doing different things, everything! But that doesn't matter because they're beautiful people (I mean on the inside, though they are beautiful on the outside too!) and that's what makes a good friend.

I don't think you should ever have to tell someone you dont want to be their friend. Unless there are proper grounds for it. Like if she a nasty person or was mean to you or stole things, well you get the picture. She sounds like a nice girl, maybe she isn't lazy- she might just not like doing the things that you do. if she wants to read a book, let her. I have friends that dont like to come out dancing, that like to stay in and read a book. It doesnt mean i am going to tell them i dont want to be their friend! All my friends are different. They are their own person and i love them for that. to be honest hun, if you tell her you don't want to be her friend because she is too different to you- don't you think that's a little...mean? I got a letter from my group of friends in high school saying we are just too different and they don't think we should hang out anymore. i was so upset. It really is such a mean thing to do. you don't have to hang out with her all the time. But at the same time you don't need to tell her not to be your friend either. I am 25 years old now, and i have learnt that everyone is different, even those completely opposite to you can make the best of friends. Don't take them for granted, or shuffle those who arnt like you away, one day you might need all your friends, but if you are going to be that choosy you may not end up with any left!

Sorry, not trying to be mean huni, just stating my opinion. But at the end of the day what you do is your decision x

Accept her friendship as one that shares the classes, and keep it focused on the things that you are connected with.
Instead of "not being friends", when she chooses reading a book over walking, dances, or other fun stuff, accept her choice and go have fun!
Avoid making negative references as you are in classes together, and just appreciate the things that brought you both together as friends.
It does make the school day much easier to have people who are friends in your classes. Be nice.
I read a lot of books, I dance, I walk, and I have friends I only get together with when there are books involved and we are sitting. We enjoy this time together and respect our friendship as it is.
I understand your reluctance to want to be friends with someone who does not share your main interests, however, you are in school together and this is one area you share, so smile, relax, and enjoy the friendship as it is.
The cursing is not acceptable. I understand that she may have learned the hard way that friends will drop her just because she chooses to read for pleasure over socializing in public.
Hope this helps.
Learning how to be positive with people of different interests will be a huge benefit for your future, especially in the workplace.

Thanks everyone:D

i have this problem and i just try to avoid them and find new friends.

I just re-read my reply- i hope I didn't sound mean! It's not how i meant it at all. Just trying to help :) xx

I don't think you sounded mean MissZuri. I too was told by my friends in school that they didn't want to be my friend any more, I'm 24 now but I still remember how much it hurt.

I agree with confident that your response was accurate, miss zuri.
I still remember how hurt I was that a group of people no longer wanted to be my friend.