well I cant say much to the pronoun portion since there was no specific ones listed. I have been with friends who say Dude what they hell, but they do that with other cis girls so its not like I think anything of it, also the phrase later guys, but again its a generic used in mixed company or single gender company. As for games... I cant say I have ever heard of a game that there is not a girl out there somewhere who wouldn't like it. I know girls who play shooters, horror, even some of the more obviously sexist games like DOA Beach Volleyball. That said, talk to him about the game choices if you aren't into them. Sure you can find one you both can agree on. For the pronouns, correct him and talk to him about it. If you aren't going to call him on it, he is going to assume you don't mind those slips.

Sorry to hear this happened again. I don't know why, but for some reason I thought more men would be turned on once they found out you were really a girl. But it seems to have an oppisette reaction. Maybe its a good thing that I am not real solcial and don't go to parties, why would I want to go somewhere where people don't treat me for who I am? When it comes to games though, I have to side with Wyndwhitch on this one, just look at Shifftinggall, shes a girl, but shes into shooters like call of duty.

Lets try to leave out stereotypes, thats like saying, a guy can't play with dolls cause he's a guy.

Call of Duty bores me easily actually. Probably cause I usually ride solo. Grand Theft Auto however, or Saints Row, now that I can ride solo and not get bored.

My entire family keeps on using the wrong pronouns, calling me "her" and "she" when I keep correcting them with "he" and "him" and "his". It has gotten so irritating - especially when they do it in public, around people who never met me. I have gotten to where I look at them like they are crazy, and give the people who look confusedly at me(after hearing relatives use the WRONG PRONOUNS), the comment "crazy relatives, can't even keep straight who they are talking to/about."

I grew up being called by every sibling's name except the one I was given. I have four older siblings. Mom never could keep us straight by names. But the others, my siblings, I have begun to think they are doing it on purpose. I now don't acknowledge they said anything to me if they call me by the wrong name or use the wrong pronouns when addressing me.

Thanks WyndWytch, yeah I should correct him on the slip ups, and take my chances as continuing being his friend or not? If Steven is a true friend, then he shouldn't mind me correcting him otherwise I'll just have to ask him to leave.

Update: Well, I just couldn't take his male pronoun slandering s and so I addressed it to his attention. Based on his verbal response, and to make a long story short, he's non accepting, although he calls me Rhonda, but then goes back to saying things like "man, dude", Anyway after he left my apartment, I blocked his cellphone number from calling me. I just hope that he doesn't take things to another level and start stalking me.

Man and dude are commonly used. I used to take offense to it too, but even girls call each other dude, so having realized this I don't get so touchy with it.