Transgender Support Group

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Really crushed..

Spiffytiffy
Spiffytiffy
So it has come out that I am transgender in not the manner I had intended. My mail was opened and they have since discovered the secret. It has been very quiet in the house and I dread the coming explosion. When they suspected my sister was bi they kicked her out of the house and did not speak to her for almost 3 years.

I am not particularly close to any family member, but the loss will be rather acute and painful. As will losing friends.

I don't know if it coming out was less painful than keeping it a secret.
Cyndysub
Cyndysub
Hang on, you have friends here that will not let you down. Sit down and review your situation and write up a timeline about how you have felt that you were the wrong sex and put it in a note on your PC and when you have it crafted to your satisfaction and print it off and keep the paper handy for when you need to explain your situation to others.
You could bounce the paper off the group to test it out first. Just a suggestion. You are the only one that truly knows yourself and your emotions so you know what is best for your soul. Trust yourself and your decision to transgender it is your Life.