Transgender Support Group
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Okay so this is going to sound incredibly odd, but this is one of the few places I can ask others for their thoughts. One of the largest pet peeves I have with anything related to being Transgendered. Why is it that so many, who have lived their lives being self reliant, able to take care of themselves all of a sudden after beginning transition decide they want to get into a BDSM style relationship and become someone's whipping pet? It makes utterly no sense to me that someone who had no interest in it before would choose to do something like that. Now I am not talking about some 50 Shades of Grey bored housewife level stuff, I am talking about they give their entire lives over to the person and do ANYTHING that person says, even cast away their friends. I ask because I find it completely ridiculous behavior personally as it is completely counter productive to transitioning in the first place, and because I don't get how medical professionals would allow for the transition to commence with such potentially detrimental behaviors going on. Anyone have any thoughts?
I have asked some I know who do it, I get the same load of crap answers that I expect which is generally.... as bad as it sounds... "They are master/mistress and I have to do what they say." or "they own me and feed me so I have to listen to them and obey." at this point I usually just get flustered and change the subject as I have known these people for years and have tried to get them to see whats going on, but much to no avail, hence this post.
I have asked some I know who do it, I get the same load of crap answers that I expect which is generally.... as bad as it sounds... "They are master/mistress and I have to do what they say." or "they own me and feed me so I have to listen to them and obey." at this point I usually just get flustered and change the subject as I have known these people for years and have tried to get them to see whats going on, but much to no avail, hence this post.
So, ANWHO back to your topic: I have only really dabbled into being tied up and treated like filth in bed, lol. But, I really really really love being submissive, I haven't really been into the whole names like "Misstress" and stuff, and I didnt know many t people that have. But, I'm very old fashioned and submissive in the relationship. No idea why either, I love being hit, and treated like absolute crap and humiliated in bed. Hair pulling, name calling, owned. List goes on and on. I LOVE calling my boyfriend daddy in bed and being treated like, I don't know.. I'm his. Which is weird because you're right, after struggling to become who I was you wouldn't think I'd ever go back to submitting to anyone or try to find myself through it. But belonging to someone feels really good and it makes me feel really relieved that for once I don't have control over the moment, and who I am or fighting for my identity, because in the bedroom. Im nothing but his. :) I don't know if any of this made any sense, haha but hopefully it did.