Teen Sexuality Support Group

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SecretlyDamaged 09/11/2010

I feel really weird about talking about this online :S
my bf was aloud to stay over tonight and we are both legal but my parents are really strict so to put it bluntly, giving him a handjob and he falls asleep. i felt so inadequate like i wasnt good enough to keep him awake. :/ i dont want opinions on how to help this i just wanted to rant :/
this is really not going to help my other issues. i already know im gunna wanna SI after this.

deleted_user 09/11/2010

sexual stuff really drains guys energy, dont worry about it (: next time, get him to do you first or do it togather and then youre both active. maybe he was tired and just lying there got a bit lazy? or he was pretending so that you would fall asleep and he could slide inside but then he didnt bother, or he was too small for you to notice LOL (:
x

SecretlyDamaged 09/11/2010

i know it does and i know he was tired, i dont blame him at all.
he wasnt pretending i know him that well... it just hurt me :/ i tend to over think things...
thanks though :)

deleted_user 09/11/2010

Don't sweat it. In fact you prolly gave him a really good night sleep. lol If you feel inadequate the best thing to do is to give something new and he's not expecting a try. He won't think your boring and you'll get a confidence boost.4

SecretlyDamaged 09/12/2010

he didnt stay asleep :/ he was asleep for a little while and then woke up again
thanks birdy... i'll give that a shot :)

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