Teen Sexuality Support Group
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Hey, erm i don't really know how to put this. But here goes. My friends even ones younger then me have had sex and they sed it's good n all that. now, id like to it's just wen it get's to doing it, my body seizes up, and i get very ... wel scared. Now, I don't even know why that happens to me, n I feel very out of place because of it. People say wel ur not ready, but how do u even know wen u r ready. I mean i think i'm ready then wen it comes to it my body seizes up at the thought of it. I feel liek there is something very wrong with me. :/.
I'd suggest that backing off from sex and taking things very slowly would be a good place to start. I'll also find some links for you to material that may help.
im sometimes like that, but get when you do it, just get him to go slow, or get him to give you a massage first ;) but then that doesnt happen much for me, or i dont notice since im so wet x)
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