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The saga continues with the guy I still have renting a room in my house. After his PO confronted him about yelling at me, he's continued to rant, vent and swear. It's like he's blaming me because he has consequences.
I know...how do you even respond to a jerk like that? He was on a real tear this morning. He only bothers to get his mail every couple weeks and this time he found a letter that he was to report to his PO on Wed. of this week. And...that his probation has been extended because of his yelling at me. He can't believe that he's not allowed to yell at anybody!!!
He decided he wasn't waiting until Wed., but going right down there today. I imagine he brought an attitude with him. He's been known to put on quite the polite show when it serves his purpose, but he was fired up today.
He came back even more angry and yelled and swore because they told him he'd been seen staring at the woman next door who has a restraining order against him. He was told he had to move out of my house. It looks like they really are trying to help without getting me too involved. But...geesh...I feel like his whipping post in the meantime.
I would hate to be the next person to cross him, right now. He's threatening to go beat somebody up so he can go to jail!
What a day...I can feel every part of my body tensed and hurting. I just hope the transition isn't going to be like this day has been. I still have the evening to endure.
I know...how do you even respond to a jerk like that? He was on a real tear this morning. He only bothers to get his mail every couple weeks and this time he found a letter that he was to report to his PO on Wed. of this week. And...that his probation has been extended because of his yelling at me. He can't believe that he's not allowed to yell at anybody!!!
He decided he wasn't waiting until Wed., but going right down there today. I imagine he brought an attitude with him. He's been known to put on quite the polite show when it serves his purpose, but he was fired up today.
He came back even more angry and yelled and swore because they told him he'd been seen staring at the woman next door who has a restraining order against him. He was told he had to move out of my house. It looks like they really are trying to help without getting me too involved. But...geesh...I feel like his whipping post in the meantime.
I would hate to be the next person to cross him, right now. He's threatening to go beat somebody up so he can go to jail!
What a day...I can feel every part of my body tensed and hurting. I just hope the transition isn't going to be like this day has been. I still have the evening to endure.
Please be careful.....
Hugs....jc..
This guy has caused you so much emotional stress and troubles and even threats...he deserves what he gets. But mostly he needs out of your life!!
So what date did they tell him he had to be out of your house?! I am soooooooo happy for you!!!!!!
Love you!!!
Please be careful and prayers.
The PO is trying to help me by removing him without my having to file a report and having to deal with the whole court system. I'm going to wait a bit and see if that can be done. I don't believe I'm in any physical danger because he wants to stay here so badly. It's the tension and what it's doing to my mind and body, that is the most difficult part to endure.
I have to work today and I've been up since 2:30...hurting. I'll manage. One day at a time...
Love and hugs for all the wonderful support,
Cherry
This added stress is the pits.
Hopefully there's an end in sight to this, at least...
Hugs...jc
What is wrong with him? is there something emotional wrong of physically wrong with him and why does he have a PO is he dangerous?
I cant wait till you say he is gone can you evict him I know it will take 30 days and that would be one hell of a 30 day period for you. Why does the neighbor have a restraining order against him? what a fruit loop
ssLisa
thats the kinda of guy that migth try and hurt you . id get him out then find a big tuff sweet guy to rent room to
you want me to come down there and kick his butt if he hurts you, cherry i know abusier that screaming only biginning he well get braver evrytime he yells at you .
you should not take his stuff he is type to neat somone up and my frind i got a bad feeling when i was reading im not trying to scare you trying to warn you you dont need that hugs love minnie guys like that is why i learned to figth i can take on pretty big down i learned becuse of stuff like this he is time bomb.extra causion cherry love minnie
Don't want to alarm you but I've dealt w/ these people and know how dangerous they can be.
I have lived through 8 months of stress with him in my house and just because he puts on a show for my Mother shouldn't mean she doesn't believe me!!!! And that's exactly where it's at. He is a liar, cheat and abuser. The Probation Officers know it...maybe they could have a chat with my Mother!
He has to be out by Monday and he needs me for a reference so he's behaving. Actually, I've barely seen him for a couple days so I don't really know how he's behaving! Maybe someone else is feeling stressed and fearful.
I finally got some sleep last night. I made it through several haircuts and a color without quite as much pain as yesterday. If all stays calm, maybe I'll sleep again tonight.
Thanks for all the support while I deal with this mess. It really helps.
Hugs...
I'll be glad when he's out of there and that stress is off of you and the danger. I know he has ranted and fussed in the past, but I feel he is at a breaking point now and might feel he has nothing to lose. This is why I feel he is a ticking time bomb and you need to be very cautious with him.
Hugs,
Toni