Hey. Your story just breaks my heart. We got our urn from Wilbert Funeral Services. They have a really great selection and we were able to engrave our urn. Our urn doesn't have a lock but it is screwed shut underneath. We lost twins almost six weeks ago and we placed them in one urn together and had both their names placed on the urn. With the urn we got they also sent us a teddy bear for each baby.

I'm sorry that we're having this conversation but I hope that it's helpful. The website is: www.wilbertonline.com.

memorialgallery.com is another good site. i got my urn necklace there

Thank you so much ladies. I am greatly appreciative and like you said Courtney, It is so unfortunate that we're having this conversation but am so glad that we have Daily Strength, I don't know what I'd do without this website.

we got one of my angel's "urn" at pier one... it's a beautiful marble box that the funeral home sealed shut for us. with my sophie she is still in a plastic white box wrapped in ribbon and flowers because i haven't found the perfect "urn" for her, and am now wondering if i want to spread their ashes somewhere. someone at the funeral home suggested looking at pier one, and I am glad they did. i think the box is perfect and it didn't cost me a couple hundred dollars either. not that i wouldn't spend whatever i could to find the perfect urn, but i looked at many websites and could never find one i liked as much as i do the one i got.

We got our urn from perfectmemorials.com it has a pic on the front and it comes with a name plate it has a theaded cap on the bottom so u dont have to worry about it comin apart they have a lot of different types and sizes

We got our urn from inthelighturns.com. We love it. Ours is a mahogany box. It has a little girl praying on top with her babydoll and a name plate that you can put 3 lines on. We love it. The bottom of the box screws on, and actually the box the funeral home put the ashs in can fit right iside of it so it is even more sealed. It was a hard process for us too, but we knew we want her in a wooden box because we made a family cabinent that we keep her in and it has currently just pictures of DH and I, but will eventually also have pictures of our future children.

Best of luck to you!

We haven't bought an urn but we have bought cremation jewelry from www.jewelrykeepsakes.com. There are a lot of companies out there - hope you had good luck. ((hugs))

We got ours from inthelighturns as well its beautiful.

My partner had 2 stillbirths and is really hoping she doesn't have to go through that ever again. We found some beautiful custom handblown glass cremation jewelry at Psychecremationjewelry.com. The ashes are actually blown into the glass so you can see them clearly in the pendants. They feel so much warmer than the mass produced cremation jewelry we saw while looking.

Something my sister did for me which I love is called Artful ashes. I have lost 3 kids as well and we were able to take a tiny bite of ashes from all three of them and put it in a really pretty piece of glass. I definitely recommend them they were very careful with the remains and they send back any they do not use. Check out their website. www.artfulashes.com These are a little bigger and easier to display in your home, looks like art so you don't need to explain you don't want to. They are very strong, I have animals and small children running around and I never worry about it possibly breaking