Hi Jens mommy, I am so sprry for your loss. My prayers go to you to help you find strenght and peace that you need at this moment. And yes you are not alone, unfortunately there is a lot of us who are going through the hardest thing a mother can face, the loss of a baby. I lost my so Eli this past May 29 at exactly 8 months of pregnancy.... Like many others here Eli's heart just stopped beating. He was my first and only baby. He is forever miss.... there is never a day that passes by that i dont think or cry for my son. This support group will help you a lot.... people,friends & family members will struggle giving you the support you need. They might not have the right words to say... but here we are we understand your pain. My prayers go to you.... try to hang in there just like all of us.... share your story, cry when u need to cry.... it will be a long grieving process.
Hugs to you
Eli's Mommy, Martha

So many of us it's really heartbreaking.

Thanks for your support and I am also very sorry for your loss!
Jens his heart also just stopped beating... so unreal, he was perfect, nothing the doctors found that could be the cause.
Also my first baby, we loved him so much and that will never change.
He is my beautiful star, forever in our minds!!

AngelEmmaRose and Martha, big hugs from us 2.

Jens mommy, Ann

This support group reals gives us a feeling that we are not alone. We are all the mothers to our angel kids and we can share our feeling here even we have never known or met each other.

My Adams heart just stoped too. I ddn't have the $ for an autopsy or I would have done it. I found out years latter that I have a blood cloting problem. That's most likely what happened to my beautiful boy. I wish I knew then all that I know now.

You are welcome here. We all know your pain.we feel it too. There is nothing you can say that we haven't felt, or said or have heard. So sorry for your loss. Its been almost 8 months for me. Still feels so fresh.

There was no cause of death for my baby Erin either. 40+ weeks of perfect healthy pregnancy and her heart stopped beating for some unknown reason sometime after her duedate. I find myself now, 6 months later, resenting women with living children. I just can't understand what they did right, that I did wrong? Or why they are deserving, when I am not? This loss and this pain IS unreal because it is unnatural. But we are here for eachother, and sometimes when I ask Erin, Why did you leave me baby? I hear a small voice saying I did not leave you, I am still here.

I am here with you. I knew there were people like me because I always prayed I wouldn't be like them and have to go threw something no one should have to go threw. but unfortunately I did and have felt the pain. I think the worst part was when I fund out she didn't have a heart beat. I have learned with counseling that it is ok to feel , it is ok to cry. I try not to cry because usually I will be working and think of her. I lost my daughter may 5 2014 and I don't think I slept well since.

Hello Jen's mommy. I am so sorry for the loss of your baby. I lost my baby at 24 weeks on 10-15-2014. I am having the most difficult time coping and no one around me understands. This site has given me strength and hope because I know all of us have experienced the same thing. Hang in there and we will all get through this together.