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SophiasMom2010
SophiasMom2010
Help!!

Well, in November I had an early miscarriage, in September 2010 I lost my baby Sophia at 38 weeks. I wasn't planning a pregnancy because my boyfriend was refusing to try again, however I have been showing all the symptoms, (cravings vomiting, sore breasts exhaustion, back aches, heightened smells, moodiness... the list goes on and on), but the tests are all negative.

Someone tell me I'm not crazy, I'm not sure I can handle this again I'm already so scared to lose another baby and I hate that the tests are negative yet it has been almost a month now and these symptoms won't go away. Yes, I saw my doctor, she said come back on Monday the 9th for a test. I already know it will still be negative. Both other times I was pregnant the tests were negative until at least 5 or 6 weeks. I would now be maybe about 4 weeks, I'm not sure.

Suggestions? Support? Remind me why I can't have a cigarette even though I'm dying for one? Help me ladies. Thanks.
misssingmartiin
misssingmartiin
I recently went through something sort of similar. I had thought I was experiencing pregnancy symptoms but it turned out to be pms. I was confused because I had taken about 10 pregnancy tests that week and 3 were faintly positive. I went for a blood test and it was negative. WTF? If you're really feeling the symptoms then you could be. I would for sure stay away from the smoking. It can increase the chances of miscarriage. You can do it! Have you been tracking your cycle?
SophiasMom2010
SophiasMom2010
no tracking my cycle, I haven't been TTC so no need to. I just went through this same thing in October, I knew I was pregnant and all month the tests were negative and my doctors were treating me like I was nuts. I turned out to be pregnant later on and they had nothing to say.

I can't see how this can be PMS though, it's not just being queasy I'm honestly sick and it's been weeeeeks! Thanks for the support, This is driving me nuts!
lmnmama
lmnmama
i would definitely ask for your doctor to do bloodwork, for every pregnancy except my 1st, i knew i felt pregnant even before i got positive results... i would go to my doctors and they would take blood and sure enough it would show up that i was in fact pregnant.

i'm sure this is confusing, so i'm hoping you get some answers xo
deleted_user
deleted_user
Not knowing really sucks. You can't do things like have a glass of wine or take advil, and you get your hopes up - maybe for nothing. I hope you get a positive at your DR's appointment! Definitely get a blood test, and in the meantime don't do anything bad. No smoking :)
deleted_user
deleted_user
Not knowing really sucks. You can't do things like have a glass of wine or take advil, and you get your hopes up - maybe for nothing. I hope you get a positive at your DR's appointment! Definitely get a blood test, and in the meantime don't do anything bad. No smoking :)
deleted_user
deleted_user
Not knowing really sucks. You can't do things like have a glass of wine or take advil, and you get your hopes up - maybe for nothing. I hope you get a positive at your DR's appointment! Definitely get a blood test, and in the meantime don't do anything bad. No smoking :)
deleted_user
deleted_user
I will be praying for you. Try not to stress out and think positive either way. I kno how hard this is hugs hugs hugs. I'm here if u need to talk.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I will be praying for you. Try not to stress out and think positive either way. I kno how hard this is hugs hugs hugs. I'm here if u need to talk.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I will be praying for you. Try not to stress out and think positive either way. I kno how hard this is hugs hugs hugs. I'm here if u need to talk.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I will be praying for you. Try not to stress out and think positive either way. I kno how hard this is hugs hugs hugs. I'm here if u need to talk.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I will be praying for you. Try not to stress out and think positive either way. I kno how hard this is hugs hugs hugs. I'm here if u need to talk.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I will be praying for you. Try not to stress out and think positive either way. I kno how hard this is hugs hugs hugs. I'm here if u need to talk.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I will be praying for you. Try not to stress out and think positive either way. I kno how hard this is hugs hugs hugs. I'm here if u need to talk.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I will be praying for you. Try not to stress out and think positive either way. I kno how hard this is hugs hugs hugs. I'm here if u need to talk.
misssingmartiin
misssingmartiin
If your symptoms are that strong then you probably are pregnant. That would be great! I've started tracking my cycle on this thing called "Pink Pad" that you can download. I downloaded it on my phone and Ipad and it's pretty cool and easy to use. Good luck!