Stillbirth Support Group
This community is dedicated to those who have been impacted by a stillbirth. A stillbirth occurs when a fetus which has died in the uterus, during labor, or during delivery exits a woman's body. For help and support, share your experiences and learn how others coped. Don't forget that you are not alone.
To all the mothers of Angels, I have been reading your stories for the last few months but haven't responded or added comment's because I am not a mother is a Angel but a grandmother- I decided to share .
My daughter gave birth to a Angel "Cameron " on Christmas Eve 2014, She was right at 36 weeks and lost her little boy to a full cord accident.
I grieve on only for my grandchild but also for my daughter, some days are so hard, some days just fly by but not a day goes by that I don't rel-live that phone call sharing the terrible news.
I totally understand when you ladies share about all the firsts - 1st week, first month, due day. Each of those days are hard. So when I read your stories I send thoughts your way.
I have a couple things I wanted to share with you ladies that have help to survive this the loss of a child
1) My daughter made a video to share her story about Cameron she posted it on u-tube called "sweet Cameron by madalene hardy"
This video is sad makes me cry but also shows the love that Little Cameron received while she was expecting him and I know that all Cameron felt was love. I encourage you ladies to view and make a video with your story.
2) I found a web site "Hope's healing hearts" a site that any of you ladies can order a pillow with your babies name embroideried on a pillow, the pillow is made the exact weight of your baby, they limit the order and right now you can order a pillow in August - I ordered my daughter a pillow, she is anxiously awaiting her gift.
So in closing I want you to know that my therapy has been reading your stories, and thinking of you and knowing that each of you Angel Mothers face and survive one of the most difficult things in life- I try to take daily to think of you and your Angels -
Last bit of information my daughter shared that she is expecting her rainbow currently 13 1/2 weeks, she is due right around Cameron's due date- we are over joyed but cautious.
Love and prayers to each and everyone one of you
My daughter gave birth to a Angel "Cameron " on Christmas Eve 2014, She was right at 36 weeks and lost her little boy to a full cord accident.
I grieve on only for my grandchild but also for my daughter, some days are so hard, some days just fly by but not a day goes by that I don't rel-live that phone call sharing the terrible news.
I totally understand when you ladies share about all the firsts - 1st week, first month, due day. Each of those days are hard. So when I read your stories I send thoughts your way.
I have a couple things I wanted to share with you ladies that have help to survive this the loss of a child
1) My daughter made a video to share her story about Cameron she posted it on u-tube called "sweet Cameron by madalene hardy"
This video is sad makes me cry but also shows the love that Little Cameron received while she was expecting him and I know that all Cameron felt was love. I encourage you ladies to view and make a video with your story.
2) I found a web site "Hope's healing hearts" a site that any of you ladies can order a pillow with your babies name embroideried on a pillow, the pillow is made the exact weight of your baby, they limit the order and right now you can order a pillow in August - I ordered my daughter a pillow, she is anxiously awaiting her gift.
So in closing I want you to know that my therapy has been reading your stories, and thinking of you and knowing that each of you Angel Mothers face and survive one of the most difficult things in life- I try to take daily to think of you and your Angels -
Last bit of information my daughter shared that she is expecting her rainbow currently 13 1/2 weeks, she is due right around Cameron's due date- we are over joyed but cautious.
Love and prayers to each and everyone one of you
Love, Sinza's mommy,
Celian
I have always felt that silence brings ignorance - we should talk about the loss of our Angels share their story and make people more aware- then possibly medically research can be done so we can have answers - and no one else will have to lose another baby to stillbirth
I am sorry that you have not received the support from your momma - I am send you a great big momma hug-
My wish for you is that your mother will understand the cord is only one piece of your tie to your child, a much greater tie is your heart- you grew your beautiful baby daughter in your womb and she is no longer tied to you by a cord but a much stronger bond called love.
Angel Mommies are super heroes in my book - surviving the loss of a wanted child is such a insult to the mind body and spirit I wish that I could give each of you a great big hug Talk about your babies and comfort you.
Love Cameron's Grammy
Your daughter is lucky to have you. My mother was wonderful as well. She didn't leave my side and mourned right along with me. And by the way, my little angel baby's name is Cameron as well:)
Hugs to you!
I hope you viewed Cameron's memorial video and made one of your Cameron, and please go to the Hope's healing hearts web site and order your self a pillow, I did pay for shipping on some extra pillows incase someone can not afford the shipping.
Love,
Cameron's Grammy
Lee Ann
I tried looking up the video, but for some reason it isn't coming up. Maybe because I am on an ipad?? I will definitely keep trying, though.
So happy for your daughter that she's pregnant again. My rainbow baby also came at the end of January almost 15 years ago now. I lost him in January and was blessed with a beautiful little girl almost exactly one year later. It was a very nerve wracking pregnancy, but it was definitely worth it in the end. I also had already had a little boy before my loss, so I have two children whom I am very close to. Good luck to your daughter and a big hug to her! She will get through this one day at a time, and that rainbow will come shining through at the end:)