This was something that I struggled with when I first got her pictures back. I didn't want to make anyone uncomfortable with it either. This is the only place that I have put her pics online. I had a couple close friends that asked for a pic because they wanted to put a face to the child they loved and never got to meet. The rest of those that got them, I emailed them ahead of time and asked them if they wanted a pic but gave them the out that I would understand if it was too much to take. Everyone that I asked was all to eager to have a pic of her with the exception of my brother's wife. Her response was that I should keep that as my own personal memory. She wasn't trying to offend me I don't think. I didn't let it. Her and I have never been close and I offered because she was "family" when this happened my brother didn't bother to contact me but she did. For christmas last year I had a bunch of photo gifts made for close family members. Both grandmas got necklaces with her photo. My god daughter got a keepsake box with her feet on it as well as framed photos for some. My sister has an 8x10 hanging on her wall, my other sister, who came to visit after she was born has her foot and hand prints framed on her wall. I never sent out birth/death announcements because I couldn't. I think that was part of my denial, I didn't want to accept that part. But I keep her with me daily, I have her feet as the back drop on my phone :)

There is another post about this that I responded to about this. I should be on page 3 if you click on the "show all". You can read about the announcement I sent out. I can send you pictures of you would like to message me your email.

I think you need to do what feels right for YOU. I understand your concern for not making other people feel uncomfortable, but honestly, no matter what you do, people are uncomfortable when faced with our situation. As far as ruining anyone elses day...I get that too. What I found was that many people I sent mine to went out of their way to call me, see me, email me to tell me how touched they were by it and how much it meant to them to be included in something so special. I truly don't think that these people were making that up. They didn't need to contact me after they received it you know? Yes, it probably will make them sad, but you know what...I think that is okay. People should be sad. Sad for you and your loss, sad for them that they didn't get to meet your Jameson, sad for Jameson that he didn't get to meet all of them and have the life he deserved. Don't worry about everyone else...do what is right for you and right as a way to honor your angel.

Hugs!

I agree that you have to do what feels right to you. Don't be afraid of what other people think. Also, you could send it out to only those that you know would be receptive to it.
I wish I had more pictures of Julianne, but I only have a few. So I am reluctant to share them with anyone, maybe I'm just not ready yet.
Good luck with whatever you decide, only you what is right for you.

I decided to make up the birth announcement. I will put a picture on my profile if anyone wants to check it out. Thanks everyone for your feedback. Hugs.

Nm it wont let me upload the picture because it is to big (too many MB's) If you want to see it message me your e-mail and I can send it to you.