Stillbirth Support Group

This community is dedicated to those who have been impacted by a stillbirth. A stillbirth occurs when a fetus which has died in the uterus, during labor, or during delivery exits a woman's body. For help and support, share your experiences and learn how others coped. Don't forget that you are not alone.

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Feeling alone

KezzB
KezzB
I just keep feeling alone. This is the worst thing any one has to go through. I don't no how to fill the this emptyness. There is such a big part of me missing and I don't no how if I'll ever find it. I never feel her presents anywhere, why? I need to no she is here with me but I just feel nothing.
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I'm sorry you are feeling alone. Please know that we are all here and understand what you are going through.

I myself am not a very religious or spiritual person. This has been hard for me because I don't know where my little Brooklyn is. I don't feel her here with me, and I would like to think she is in Heaven but i really don't know if i believe that either.

Just know your daughter is at peace where ever she is.

I feel like my heart is broken, and there is a big whole. From seeing other peoples posts i'm not sure that it will get better. But know that with time you will find comfort and hope.
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I have no words to make it better, but know that you are not alone.
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I am so sorry for your loss. I am very religious and spiritual, and I believe with all my heart that your baby is one of God's chosen ones that He brought back home. She is in Heaven with Him. I know that it's hard to feel her presence. I go through that too. But I think that's because those in Heaven know no pain or sadness, and because we are so sad right now, they are spared from that. But know that she is safe, she is there, and she loves you. If you see a butterfly in a place that is not normally where a butterfly would be, that's her. Also, red tailed hawks symbolize our loved ones. She is with you, but she may not know your pain. But God does. You must seek comfort from Him, and trust that he is taking care of your precious baby until you get there. My heart is with you.
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I am sure that our little loved ones are never lost to us.Even though you cannot feel her, she is somewhere safe and peaceful. You might feel her presence more if you have a special place or some special things for her to help you think about her, and if you talk to her or write to her. You feel alone, but you are not. All of us here on DS share your pain.