My step son is three and his mother has been out of the picture for over a year. So every time me and my husband get to snuggling or talking even he comes and jumps up on his daddy and starts yelling if we're talking or hitting him and trying to wrestle when we snuggle. I get so upset and hurt that he doesn't want me near his father but yet some times its perfectly fine with him and Randy (SS) says he loves me and wants to keep me (yes he said it on his own no one told him to say it).

He has had two previous mothers in his first year of life and then his grandmother was his mom until I came into the picture at age 2. I want him to know that me and his daddy will be together forever (we are married and neither of us believe in divorce) but I dont know how to explain it to him to reassure him Im not going anywhere. I think he wont let me near my husband sometimes because he's scared Im going to break daddy's heart too.