Yes very, and it can't be good for them, can it? My partner claims he doesn't tuck but he wears 3 pairs of knickers with bum padding and they seem to flatten him out totally. He says he points it upwards...
I do ask him why he has to hide his penis if he claims to like it?

I don't see how this can be healthy
And yes my husband said he doesn't hate his penis, but still hides it

Yes it disgust me. It makes me sick to reach between my boyfriends legs to find out he has it tucked.. I'm not sure what I can post in here I just kn o.i w I need to vent to get it out. I h.g.h ace tried very hard and done pretty good and keeping it locked in until this last two weeks.today I totally lost it. I said so.e pretty mea. Hurtful things. The sad part is I meant most of them.

I'll be honest with you... This is a sore subject for me. We had trouble conceiving our first child. It took almost 3 years. I am a cancer survivor and was told the chemo may have left me unable to have children, so I spent a good deal of that time feeling bad and like it was my fault - like my body was broken - because we couldn't conceive. Later we found out it was, in part, because my spouse had weak swimmers. My spouse has children from a previous marriage though, so we knew her sperm could do their job. Anyway, I took medications (which really had some unpleasant side effects for me) to give me a stronger ovulation (more and larger eggs) and to be able to better time things, and we did IUIs to give my spouse's sperm a better chance to fertilize my eggs. It was all very clinical and embarrassing and even humiliating to lay there with my feet in stirrups while a doctor and his team inseminated me with my spouse's sperm.

Well, one thing that tucking can do is kill off sperm and cause those that aren't killed to become weak.

I know my spouse dressed up during our whole relationship, and now I can't help but wonder if he was tucking while we were trying to conceive. We conceived our 2nd child without intervention less than 2 years after our first was born.

To this day I hate Mother's Day because it brings back extremely painful memories of that time, and I don't like celebrating it because of that. Now, I can't help but wonder if it could have all been avoided. Could the drugs and procedures and feelings of worthlessness because my body was "broken" have all been avoided if only my spouse had stopped tucking and underdressing during that time?

Of course, I can never know either way with any certainty. Just makes me wonder.

1newstart, please don't ever think you were broken, none of your struggles were by your choice and you did what you needed to do to survive.

Wanttolovehim - I am not a moderator, but I feel like you can and should speak freely here. You certainly won't offend me. I am also available offline via private message.

Ld, thank you, and I know better now. It is just when you are in the thick of it it is sometimes hard to see it any differently.

I'm actually seeing a lot of things more clearly these days, and I am strengthened by that and better prepared for the next chapter in my life.

Actually got a little freaked out by a discussion of it in a chat room myself. Have to remind myself, if they're allowed to be trans, I'm allowed to be a heterosexual female that appreciates fully functional male bodies.