Spouses of Transgender Community Group
Being transgender it's not easy but neither for their spouses. This group is created with the intention of helping and getting to know others that are in. the same situation or to just educate those that are on the other side of the fence and want to know how does it feel or how would it feel to be a spouse of a transgender person. The main objective of this group is...
I hope you manage to find a way through and the nice spouse comes to the fore. It must be very hard.
Sending hugs.
Is your spouse on hormones? Hormones can definitely affect mood and sex drive and can be corrected over time by adjusting the medications.
If the sex drive is not hormones, it could be the dysphoria about the genitalia and the roles in the bedroom. If you feel you are open to it, discuss this with your spouse and see if there are any small changes that will help alleviate the dysphoria if that is part of the cause.
Good luck. This is not easy for the spouses who have been blind-sided. Hang in there and take care of yourself.