Spouses of Transgender Community Group

Being transgender it's not easy but neither for their spouses. This group is created with the intention of helping and getting to know others that are in. the same situation or to just educate those that are on the other side of the fence and want to know how does it feel or how would it feel to be a spouse of a transgender person. The main objective of this group is...

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confusedfairy 08/01/2018

Googled 'my husband got replaced by an alien' and it found this:

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/schlepping-through-heartbreak/201312/my-husband-was-abducted-aliens-0

I don't to my knowledge think I've been cheated on, but who else does this feel familiar to? I'm guessing our 'other woman' is the new gender.

Ldmessing 08/01/2018

Exactly!

Misled 08/01/2018

Yep. Pretty weird when the "other woman" is your spouse!

Leonie64 08/02/2018

And the extraordinary behaviour that goes along with it is also sometimes (often) very disconcerting.

I'm tired of the "but it's only hair, makeup and clothes" line. If that's true, why is it so important? Why should he rush to "dress" as soon as any visitors have left or as soon as we get home from being out in public?

And the thousands that have been spent on laser hair removal, fillers, botox and all the rest of it. The other day he was talking about taking a trip to another city because the range of wigs in our city is inferior - what mad parallel universe have I stumbled into?

Sorry I'm really cranky today after finding a condom in his wallet. Why would a 60 year old married man who's had a vasectomy and "only doing this because it makes me feel comfortable" need a f**king condom? :(

Wanttolovehim 08/02/2018

Mine using condoms to make his breast so he always has an extra on him I'm tired of hearing I'm the same person I always have been. No he is not. He came out and told me four years ago that he likes to dress in womens clothes sometimes. It's not sometimes anymore its alot of the time. We have grown so far apart this last 3 1/2 weeks sad. We use to get in the hot tub put our phones a way and visit. Not tonight I just picked mine back up cause his has been in his hands since I got out here.i sick of it I'm real close to being done.

1newstart 08/02/2018

I used to say that my spouse picked her over us, so yeah.

Ldmessing 08/02/2018

Yes, I feel she there are not 3 people in my marriage and typically "she" is his highest priority instead of me,his wife

gallinarosa 08/02/2018

What is this condom thing?! Wanttolovehim, are you saying he uses the condom to make breasts? Explain... I have never heard this. I would be trembling if I found a condom. You should confront him, Leonie. He could be using it in pleasuring himself -- which sucks, but in a different way. The worst part is the secrecy. Not good for a relationship.

:(

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