Oh how I understand this! I am the EXACT same way! Every single day, I check the social media. Our OW is so dumb, that she keeps it all public on fb, where she plays mother of the year and on twitter keeps it private. Their is where her real feelings come out, along with her hood mentality. So I made a fake account, added a few of her friends and of course she accepted my follow request. I document everything so that we will have it. At times it is actually funny to see her make a fool of herself. But I can totally relate. I really love how she tries to explain all her baby daddy drama. No bitch, you didn't have a relationship with them all, one was a one night stand....Just to make her look like something other than the whore she is. Maybe you all will get lucky and she will drop cs and the OC can be adopted!

Yup... Been there, like every other day lol. This scum bag has a facebook account that I can check but she literally does not update it. Its. Very frustrating not knowing what shes up to. Like I said once, they are like cancer in your thoughts. Hard to make it go away. Take care of yourself, you must be pretty far along now.

torn- yep...I'm due in 12 weeks. SO ready to get this baby out! LOL...at least it'll be a new focus for me too

omg! four yrs later and I still research this imaginary OW. I have seen her in court and I know nothing about her. she has done pretty good with her FB account but I even check out her pintrust stuff I am just obsessed with how she ending up fucking my H. I will be wondering this for the rest of my life. it just kills me
I write her letters and she never ever responds. I have thought about just knocking on her front door someday or going to place of employment ! lol

lol...I also look at OW's pintrest and even twitter, though she never posts to neither. I know who she was/of her since she went to the same college as us, but my mystery with her lies in the fact of how she could have possibly kept sleeping with my husband on and off for years all while knowing about me, knowing about our son, knowing he never wanted to be with her, etc. I can understand it happening while in college when you're young and dumb...but to continue it so long and even stop it and then go back to it. She has always claimed she never even wanted him. It just baffles me and I'll probably never get answers. I think if she was more emotional about the whole situation or remorseful I would have more closure, but the fact that she's just so matter of fact every conversation and acts like she has done nothing wrong and it's all on him that really bothers me.

But now she's gone out and got knocked up by some other guy (OC is only 1.5) and acting like she's still perfect...so I just don't know.

I'm going to make another post about getting closure...that just popped in my head.