Shyness Support Group
Shyness is a feeling of insecurity that certain people experience while being among others, talking with others, asking favors of others, etc. The initial cause of shyness can vary. Scientists have located some genetic data that supports the hypothesis that shyness is at least partially genetic.
I go through bouts where things get so bad that I will go a week without food just to avoid being with people. However the needs of my cat force me to go out and get food, litter, etc. My family doesn't help much, comparing me to a shut in or old cat lady. They don't seem to understand how difficult it is to just up and go out with people, to share things with them or even to be around people at times. My moms the worst because she is a very social, extroverted person, she craves people to be around her. I don't want to be the shut in with a house full of cats, never dating, never getting married or having kids. I want a family, I just don't know how to move beyond that need to pull back and hide.
What do I need to do to step outside, to make that step to at least date, I haven't had a date in three years. Anything that could help?
What do I need to do to step outside, to make that step to at least date, I haven't had a date in three years. Anything that could help?
i know how you feel, try not to compare yourself to anyone. we are all unique on our journey in life.
take baby steps, just for today/tomorrow, i am going to get out and _____
(visit the park, go to the library, go to a coffee shop, smile and be the first one to say hello to a stranger, etc.) easier said than done, i know. but keep trying and don't look back or worry about the future. marriage and children aren't necessarily the answer. work on YOU and your happiness, whatever that may be :)