Sexual Abuse Support Group
Sexual abuse is a relative cultural term used to describe sexual relations and behavior between two or more parties which are considered criminally and/or morally offensive. Different types of sexual abuse involve: Non-consensual, forced physical sexual behavior such as rape, incest or sexual assault, or psychological forms of abuse, such as verbal sexual behavior or...
mine are old men. it has to do with i was molested by my grandfather so now old men creep me out and i feel like they are all pervs
another trigger was the book Speak
so what are yours?
another trigger was the book Speak
so what are yours?
or any other sexually exploitave stuff that shouldn't be intruding on my shows.
My husband touching me anywhere while my hands are occupied.
Lightbulbs blowing out.
My stepson alone with my son in any room.
It's this one certain smell. It's kind of a musky/basement smell with a hint of a man's cologne that I can't put my finger on. I find it in basements and thrift stores. Needless to say, I try to stay away from both places.
That's the one and pretty much only thing that triggers me.
colored people who seem up to no good.
people joking or saying rape when they are not.
friends saying things around me that i tell them not to say.
being touched on accidently in the wrong places
people sneaking up on me
there are more but i am not ready to tell more.
People touching me without permission--especially certain parts of my body, dirty carpets(have no idea on this one), people talking about sex disrespectfully or as though it is a conquest, big bananas, I like bananas but always go for the smaller ones( I am serious)
Cigars (any type)
Beer (especially if it's in a can)
Anyone touching my ears
My hands above my head
Certain types of word phrases ("You like this don't you" or "This/that feels great" for example)
Firemen
Policemen
Ambulances
Sirens of any kind
Tall, dark haired men
Certain positions I sleep in can trigger
I have also had photos that have nothing to do with the abuse trigger a memory of the abuse
Certain public places
My "bedroom"
Two toned homes
- being called a victim by my ex or let alone suppose being the victim.... when i personally don't want to be seen as a victim.... Asshole( I had to vent that out)
- someone getting way too close to me just about anyone, i just don't want that at all.
- being misunderstand by people "who supposedly claim" they actually care and love you
- any meant to be sexual touches, for some reason i don't like when a guy touches me and getting to close to men, sometimes sadly i feel like I hate men
those are some i can actually name at the moment.
Fathers
Dominant Women
Madonna
Intimate scenes in movies or tv shows
When I was pregnant - everything, the exams and the nurse when I delivered my youngest. She - well - what she did cause me some problems with my youngest in the beginning.
I think that is all, I know there is more, but I can't think of them right now or maybe I don't want to.
men the sage age as abuser.
the abuser giving me a hug or getting close to me.
the abuser talking to me in genral really.
Breasts being touched.
Rough hands with dirty nails.
Old men (alhough I mostly am over that one)
Some posts, books, etc.
Genitalia.
The word "rape."
The words "sexual abuse."
The word "sex" sometimes.
Porn.
Surprise touches.
Hugs unless they ask and I give permission.
Touches on my legs.
Touches on my lower back.
Touches on my belly.
Caressing of my face.
Sometimes, dark wood.
Light blue bathroom rugs.
Sometimes, bathrooms with a shower tub.
Beds.
Old men.
Young teenage boys.
Guys in general.
Sometimes, roaches.
Strange dogs, some strange cats.
Some wooden chairs.
When a chair I'm in leans back or rocks backwards.
Some screams.
Some shows/movies/books/commercials.
"You little whore."
"Fuck!" said angrily.
"Sex slave."
Being a possession, as in being someone's.
Loud noises.
People sneaking up on me.
People, especially guys, behind me without me knowing.
Being tickled.
Sometimes, the smell of beer.
Being alone with a guy.
Being alone.
Being the only one awake.
Yelling.
Sometimes, angry cursing.
Eyes, especially His.
Seeing pictures of Him.
Sometimes, pictures of me from back then.
Being hot.
Pain down there.
The proper names for genitalia and some slang for it.
Laying on the floor.
Throwing up and other people throwing up.
Sometimes me or someone else crying.
Being on my knees.
...Stuff like that.
to add on to my list....when a friend tells me "life's not perfect" or something similar to that
and some poems in doctor suess, if u really are bugged about wanting to know ill tell u but i dont feel like explaining and idk y cuz its not that hard lol
just let me know if u wanna know