Sexual Abuse Support Group
Sexual abuse is a relative cultural term used to describe sexual relations and behavior between two or more parties which are considered criminally and/or morally offensive. Different types of sexual abuse involve: Non-consensual, forced physical sexual behavior such as rape, incest or sexual assault, or psychological forms of abuse, such as verbal sexual behavior or...
Also, my mother saying stupid things like "girls like to be raped" and giggling evil-y even though she knows the crap I have been through.
Also, my mother insisting she "didn't know anything about it" each and every time I get pissed about her triggering me.
White-haired ladies who get too close to me.
Very large men with dark beards.
People who try to recite bible verses to "teach me" without prompting.
The sound of football on TV.
and Garlic Breath.
That's actually all I can think of right now...but I do know there are a whole lot more.
Confrontation/arguing/fighting
Flies on a window.
Tall grass.
Certain colognes.
Any touches not from my own kids.
Sexual innuendo or jokes in social settings.
Not being listened to
Sex or intimate contact
Certain compliments (you're pretty, etc)
The smell of hay
The smell of old attic
T.V, in the dark
Saturday Night Live, the oooold ones
Condescending attitudes
Phonyness or falseness
There are many, many more triggers for me, and probably many I don't even know of yet, can't recognize yet.
people joking around and saying their being raped when their friends come up to hug them
having my hands being brought above my head and held their during sex
i dont mind any bad language, im used to it
im so sorry we ve all gone through this stupid abuse, but were getting by now arent we?
i wish u all the best of luck and i hope soon the triggers will stop
*hugs*
love you all!
sexual touch
guys hitting on me....ugh, I just want to be left ALONE!
loud noises
yelling
the word DIRTY
more....
And it's nice to see someone else triggers at a TV show. I thought that was one of my strange ones, that happened to nobody else.
Movies with abuse
SVU - sometimes
Crowds - not being able to get out... feeling trapped
Sex scenes
Anyone touching me when I don't want to be touched, even it its just a friendly pat on the back
Old men - don't know why older men are attracted to me... ick
Shouting
Screaming
Crying
Certain songs
Bible preaching
people breathing on me
People getting too close
Compliments about how sexy I am
seeing my abusers, hearing people talk about them like they are good people, or even thinking about them
Church
Being tickled and play wrestled no matter how innocent it is
Loud noises
My hallucinations at bed time trigger me or are they triggered by something else thus causing my hallucinations which then trigger me again... wow that part was confusing.
anything having to do with a man's genitals
c*m is a huge trigger
Yelling,
Complements bout me, yet not what I'm doing,
Joking, mostly about someone hating me, or that I'm doing a bad job (at work).
Men in my house, (it's not my house, I just live here)
My mom's contact with this one man,
The feeling that what I'm going thru is my problem and doesn't affect others in my family, (mostly my mom),
and new ones are popping up all the time.
Being in the shower too lone
Alone in an elevator, and it is not moving, I panic
In the car and there is a traffic jam, feel trapped
Men with the smell of alcohol on their breath, the man who raped me as a child drank
Hearing the words, "Get over it", "Get on with your life", "it is part of your past".
My husband's arm around my neck, hmmmm, not sure why.
Men who are abusive to women and children
A child crying
My mother in law treating me as less than
My mother in law verbally abusing me
Being objectized.
Movies about rape
Movies about incest.