Sexual Abuse Support Group

Sexual abuse is a relative cultural term used to describe sexual relations and behavior between two or more parties which are considered criminally and/or morally offensive. Different types of sexual abuse involve: Non-consensual, forced physical sexual behavior such as rape, incest or sexual assault, or psychological forms of abuse, such as verbal sexual behavior or...

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johnyo
johnyo

if a man has sex with a boy and tbe boy didnt hate it does that make it ok? does that mean the boy wanted it to happen or deserved that?

donnawanda
donnawanda
What did you do to deserve that? Can you even remember?

Only a pathetic weakling tortures creatures as helpless and dependant as a child or an animal.
donnawanda
donnawanda
I remember the punishments I received but I don't remember anything I did wrong. I've made more mistakes in life from being angry and scared and nervous than anything else. So punishments didn't improve me, they made me worse. And it didn't even teach me respect because I despised him for it.
johnyo
johnyo
I dont remember the things i did ewrong
NomadicSpore
NomadicSpore
Hey hey. I was sexually abused by my older stepbrother for seven years. I blamed myself and I wouldn't tell anybody at risk tearing my family apart. Little did I know how much it was going to affect me for the rest of my life. Do some research on the symptoms that are present in adults who have been sexually abused in their childhoods. Many of them have very low self-esteem they are full of shame and guilt and many of them turn to drugs or kill thenselves. You are a victim nobody and I mean nobody deserves to be abused as a child specialist sexually. It hurts people very deep level and he causes a lot of problems in adulthood. If there's anything I can tell you and it is that it was not your fault and you did not deserve it. I love you. And I implore you to seek sexual abuse trauma therapy. It help me a lot. In fact it changed my life. I feel dead inside for years and I turned to using heroin and other drugs to make the pain go away. It was not your fault it is not your fault you do not deserve it. If you want to talk more private message me. Trust me, you talking to me about it will help me and you heal. Check out this video it might help you understand a couple things about what's going on. https://youtu.be/5viOYkM4CRE
johnyo
johnyo
did you ever feel like you deserved it or is that just me being all messed up?
refurb
refurb
Nope, no, uh-uh, no-FFF-ing way

1) a child does not have an understanding of sex, therefor a child can't really make a choice to want sex
2) all children are innocent, no-one has the right to abuse innocence
3) a child that has done "bad" things should be taught a lesson in that "bad" behaviors have consequences, this is discipline, discipline is to teach self-disciple which all people need to have over themselves as adults
4) No human being deserves to be abused
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