Sexual Abuse Support Group
Sexual abuse is a relative cultural term used to describe sexual relations and behavior between two or more parties which are considered criminally and/or morally offensive. Different types of sexual abuse involve: Non-consensual, forced physical sexual behavior such as rape, incest or sexual assault, or psychological forms of abuse, such as verbal sexual behavior or...
Ok so when I was 13 I was participating in my school fund raiser and I was doing a house to house. I went to one house to see if they would buy what the school was selling. The guy that answered let me in. He seemed friendly and he led me to the kitchen where he got me a drink and started making small talk. How old I was, where I lived, who I lived with. We got talking about the fund raiser and he led me to the living room, sat down and made me sit in his lap with my bavk to him. Now at the time I was rather sheltered and didn't understand "stranger danger" and I especially didn't know anything about sex or how it worked or anything about molestation and paedophilia so I went along with it. He started sort of asking like what could I say or do for him that would get him to buy something. He asked this a few different ways while rubbing his hand all over my chest. I told him that I didn't know because like I said earlier I didn't understand and after a few minutes of that he sort of abruptly said then im not going to buy anything and made me leave. I was pretty confused but then brushed it off and left but my gut told me to never go to that house again. I didn't think anything of it until a few years later and it's been on my mind since and I have noticed that it's had an affect on me but every time I hear about molestation and abuse it's usually skin on skin touching, pictures, genitalia all the way to strait up rape so I'm confused. Is it just in my head and I'm blowing it out of proportion or was I molested?
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Middy is off for a bit so if anyone needs a CL please just give me a shoutSending a big hug...xo
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I feel so dirty and used I was drunk and passed out at a party when I came around some guy was on top of me rapeing me he covered my mouth and told me to shut up afterwards he got up and got dressed and said I better not tell anyone I found my friend and reported that I had been raped after having medical checks and them getting DNA I've taken the morning after pill IAM just so depressed and...

Next facing away from him, yikes!!
Rubbing anything or anywhere on you?? Doesn’t have to be ‘skin on skin’.. very well can be molestation.
Im actually going to say I believe you were molested..
he had no business doing or saying anything with the sexual intent towards any kid, any age!
Sorry you’re figuring this out, it’s hard.. I’m sorry..
I hope this adds a piece to the puzzle.. nothing that happened was your fault, please remember that.. he was a very bad person, and I’m glad your gut told you to stay away from him ever again.
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