Sexual Abuse Support Group
Sexual abuse is a relative cultural term used to describe sexual relations and behavior between two or more parties which are considered criminally and/or morally offensive. Different types of sexual abuse involve: Non-consensual, forced physical sexual behavior such as rape, incest or sexual assault, or psychological forms of abuse, such as verbal sexual behavior or...
I used to go to work to forget about what happen to me, but now it is all I can think about, I get upset very easy I am angey all the time. All I want is to be able to forget about what happen to me, I also wish my mum would believe me when I told her that my dads friend sexually abused me. I mean I cry myself to sleep most nights I really need to to talk about what happen to me but i have no one I can trust with my dirty little secret to. I used to dirty and ashamed and those feelings have never really gone away, I am really wish I could snap out of my depressive feelings I have got. I have thought about ending it all when I am at my worse but I chicken out.
gettingitstraight
I am sorry you went through this and have to deal with the pain the way you arrest now if you need an ear I am a goodnlistener
deleted_user
I have been there. Im sorry. Have you even been to counseling for it? It might help you a great deal. We are all here for you. And you would be suprised at how many of our mothers did not believe us either.
deleted_user
Maybe you should find a therapist to help you so you have someone to talk to that believes you and understands. I'm sorry that your mother doesn't believe you. That's why I can't tell my mom because I know she won't believe me. But I see a therapist who knows. It's all I think about too. I don't know how to make it stop. It got worse when I lost my job and couldn't go back to school. Now there is nothing else to do but think about it. So I understand how you feel. Honestly if your mother is being like that I wouldn't even talk to her. She's seriously believing a child molester over you? People that side with perpetrators piss me off to no end.
deleted_user
My mother wouldn't believe me about any of the other abuse that I did tell her about, and there was physical proof always. So I think mothers are just in serious denial.
star755
Thanks for the replys I am trying to find someone in my area that specialises in victims of sexual abuse but it's not easy. Also is normal not to be interested in having a boyfriend after what I have gone through I have serous trust issues like all men are only after one thing. Problem is this guy came in to where I work and asked me to go with him but I am just not interested in him or any men for that matter.
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