Sexual Abuse Support Group

Sexual abuse is a relative cultural term used to describe sexual relations and behavior between two or more parties which are considered criminally and/or morally offensive. Different types of sexual abuse involve: Non-consensual, forced physical sexual behavior such as rape, incest or sexual assault, or psychological forms of abuse, such as verbal sexual behavior or...

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tigerlily18
tigerlily18

So I've been seeing those videos for good dads... and I cry every time cause why can everyone else have good fathers and I had two in my life and my biological father physical and mental abused me, and my step dad raped me. Os it wrong for me to hate children when you come in my store with their fathers and their laughing together and I'm just the one who got abused... maybe I deserved it I am the girl with a fuck ton of mental illnesses.

Emerald0743
Emerald0743
You did not deserve it at all. Also I think having this resentful feeling is normal considering what you have been through. Are you seeing a therapist?
tigerlily18
tigerlily18
Ice tried but haven't had good luck they just tell me my life doesn't sound real and push me into the next
Emerald0743
Emerald0743
Wow. Thats messed up but please don't give up. Sometimes it takes a while to find a good one . I had a therapist once who kept trying to convince me I was Gay like he was getting off on it or something. Not that I have anything against gay people but its frustrating when people label you something that you are not.
RoseyViolet
RoseyViolet
Sigh...I can relate. I can relate to hating SO many things and people around me who seemingly had it all together and were happy while I felt trapped, miserable and living a lie. I literally thought I had multiple personality disorder due to the "lies" I was living to others around me who expected me to put on a happy face and "be normal", whatever that was. Chameleon, that was my name for it.

What I've learned over time though is this... no ones life is perfect. There are hurting people everywhere you look, they are all just in differing stages of dealing with things that most people will never know anything about. Give yourself grace, do a giant favor for yourself and get help. I

s there anyone in your life who will walk alongside you in your journey to healing and trust again? Do you have a referral to a victims of sexual abuse therapist or group where you can meet, even online, to help share and heal through the pain of the past abuse? It took me a long time to reveal the pain of sexual abuse to anyone in my life, but when I did break the silence, I felt a giant weight off my shoulders.

Start small making healthy small steps of being good to yourself. You are not alone. You are cherished and highly favored by your creator God. He knows the number of hairs on your head and created you uniquely with your own set of fingerprints to make an impact in your world with everything you touch. You are worth the effort of getting healthy and having goodness and healing come into your life.

I pray you'll find your path to wellness. Mine came from choosing to forgive my abuser, not because he deserved it, but because I was worth it, it wasn't my fault, I was just left with the choice on how I would remain trapped in the effects of the abuse or choose to get out and get healthy.