Sexual Abuse Support Group

Sexual abuse is a relative cultural term used to describe sexual relations and behavior between two or more parties which are considered criminally and/or morally offensive. Different types of sexual abuse involve: Non-consensual, forced physical sexual behavior such as rape, incest or sexual assault, or psychological forms of abuse, such as verbal sexual behavior or...

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SEXUAL ABUSE OR NAH?

rach
rach

Hi, recently I was with my bestfriend at my local skatepark (I am a chick who skates, and no I am not friends with him anymore). He started grabbing my tits and squessing them going "mmmm" and I moved away from him thinking it was a one off thing. He then started coming up to me and slapping my ass, and grabbing at it before he let go. I told him to stop, thinking he'd be a loyal bestfriend and stop. Latter on (maybe 15 mins) he came back and started doing it again coming up behind me and hugging me and wispering in my ear "It's okay, I am your bestfriend"......I won't go into anymore details because I don't want to trigger anything for anyone or myself.......BUT IS THIS SEXUAL ABUSE????? thanks xxx

notalone00
notalone00
If not, it is sexual assault. Also sexual harassment, assault, and more... He was taking advantage of the 'friendship', though a true friend wouldn't even touch you, let alone make you feel guilty for not 'enjoying it'...
Very sorry about his actions...not all of us are jerks, or creeps.
I knew a boy when I was in school who would grab the girl in different areas... She was beet red, and he was one of my bullies, so I didn't stand up to him... But her and I were friends, so I comforted her afterwards...

Hang in there.. You're welcome to talk to any of us.. Whether here, or pm.
somedays
somedays
sounds border line of sexual assault but. But if he dont get the point of no and it continues put your foot down and say no and if you keep that up ill call the cops. Even if it wrecks your friendship so be it. If its unwanted sexual stuff end it quickly or it could lead to more like rape and or beating you up cause you dont want the same thing he wants.
mattuk123
mattuk123
any unwanted contact is classed as assault, within the UK any way. This may be classed as sexual assault. I am sorry this has happened to you. You need to distance yourself from this person and get yourself better people to be friends with. xx
Cakeasaurus
Cakeasaurus
It's sexual assault. It is serious. It is not your fault. He is a bad friend and a bad person for doing this. Make it clear that he should leave you alone.
rach
rach
THANK YOU ALL SO MUCH! I really appreciate your replies :) I am no longer friends with the guy, he did it multiple times before where I told him to stop but he kept going. I feel more 'free' and safe with ought him around. Thanks xxx
mattuk123
mattuk123
Made my day, very well done. It is clear to me that you gave him lots of chances and he did'nt take any notice. Certainly not a person you would want in your life. xx
rach
rach
Yea, it's been hard letting go of our friendship. I have lost a lot of friendships in my time due to bullying etc. I cry everyday about it, just because it has messed with my mental health and school grades x
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