Sexual Abuse Support Group

Sexual abuse is a relative cultural term used to describe sexual relations and behavior between two or more parties which are considered criminally and/or morally offensive. Different types of sexual abuse involve: Non-consensual, forced physical sexual behavior such as rape, incest or sexual assault, or psychological forms of abuse, such as verbal sexual behavior or...

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roseydove85 07/12/2018

I was Raped by a Pastor at Gunpoint in 2009 who spit Hebrews 13:17-21 in my face laughing saying i have to obey hes in authority etc....I wrote all about it in details with a Poem Its been really rough to enter any kind of church without fear I dont feel alot of people understand its not that im judging all Pastors but its hard after this happened to me :( To make things worse people told me to Pray and Give it to God No support at all

EvergreenDreamer 07/12/2018

hi rosey i am sorry you faced such terrible trauma and reactions to it from insensitive people. i hope writing here helps you heal. triple hugs of support.

lauriegardner 07/12/2018

I'm so sorry.

MOMBI 07/12/2018

Rosie, I was raised in a church that would have told you exactly the same thing. Those people were terrified to even whisper to each other that you may be telling the truth. I don't know the feelings you carry...but I slightly know. I am from a religious family of pedifiles. Took me many years to figure that out without disappearing as 2 family members did. Rosie...that evil person has no right or authority to kill a relationship with your God. You don't NEED to ever walk in a church...it's a building. Try to understand . Those people were scared and talked each other into believing you were nuts. They chose the safe, easy way. It was wrong. It happens then, it happens now. I wish I could hug you.

roseydove85 07/12/2018

Thank you everyone Yes i like to think God sees everything I dont blame him for that Mans choice its still hard to read that passage :( Appreciate the Support here more than you know its nice to finally have that no one believes a Pastor would do that

DebJ 07/12/2018

So very sorry you had to suffer this in your life. Know I care and sending love, light, healing thoughts and prayers to you. Stay strong..

refurb 07/12/2018

i've come to believe that church, pastors, reverends, priests&..............................
are all bullshit middlemen out for themselves and the organization
to God we are the flock
only to God
here on earth we are to discern and judge, not follow

I am very sorry that you were preyed upon
and never got the support that God would have wanted people to offer you

roseydove85 07/13/2018

Thank you I cant believe how much love and support you can feel joining this site for the first time (Tears)

crystalknows 07/20/2018

YOU ARE SO STRONG. I am so sorry you havent gotten support. You deserve all the support in the world. Please know it wasnt your fault, you are beautiful and worthy.

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