Sexual Abuse Support Group

Sexual abuse is a relative cultural term used to describe sexual relations and behavior between two or more parties which are considered criminally and/or morally offensive. Different types of sexual abuse involve: Non-consensual, forced physical sexual behavior such as rape, incest or sexual assault, or psychological forms of abuse, such as verbal sexual behavior or...

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rape but not rape...

CrimsonTears
CrimsonTears
sum1 online wants to sleep with me and control me like HE did so rape me but not really cuz it would be consentual were supposed to meet 2moro morning
deleted_user
deleted_user
IF you don't feel comfortable, then don't meet him. I hope that he doesn't try to do anything to you. I am here to talk.
CrimsonTears
CrimsonTears
idk maybe i should just let him i mean its not like i deserve better. i tear up my body anyway why not let sum1 else be happy and me not look as crazy as i did by cutting... idk
deleted_user
deleted_user
Girl, you don't deserve to be cut up by yourself or anyone else. This does not have to be a bad situation. Trust your instincts. Don't do anything you're uncomfortable with. It is not going to help you in anyway to put yourself in risky situations.
Be careful, and stay safe.
Problems sometimes come our way, and often we can't control them. This is still in your control, keep it that way.
hugs.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Sweetie, you deserve so much better than this. Even if you don't realize it yet. Don't do anything you aren't 100% sure about. Think twice before making your final decision about this.
I'm always here if you ever want to talk. BIG hug and lots of love.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Please don't do that to yourself. You deserve to be happy. Do what makes you happy not what makes someone else happy.
CrimsonTears
CrimsonTears
idk how 2 change plans i dont like disappointin ppl
deleted_user
deleted_user
Just say no! You can tell him I said you can't meet him, if you want. You may not feel like you deserve better right now, but you do. You can believe all of us about that. And someday, you will know it, too. Don't add to your pain by doing something you don't feel comfortable with. Hugs and prayers coming your way!
CrimsonTears
CrimsonTears
ill try
CrimsonTears
CrimsonTears
thought id let yall know i blew him off. still not doin great but at least im not in danger right? idk... im goin to see xfiles with my best friend her husband and 2 of his friends at 1201am tonight so i have to be in a good mood plus im babysitting so its happy face time... my counselor hated when i do this but i cant let them see the real me esp not the kids
deleted_user
deleted_user
Try to have fun at the movies. I am glad that you blew him off.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I am so proud of you. You made a decision to blow this person off (which I am personally glad you did as he didn't seem kind) AND you are moving on with your life in spite of being in a not so good move. You are brave. Be gentle with yourself and have a good time at the movies and babysitting. Keep up the good work and keep us posted. Hugs!