Sexual Abuse Support Group
Sexual abuse is a relative cultural term used to describe sexual relations and behavior between two or more parties which are considered criminally and/or morally offensive. Different types of sexual abuse involve: Non-consensual, forced physical sexual behavior such as rape, incest or sexual assault, or psychological forms of abuse, such as verbal sexual behavior or...
Hey guys,
So like I said, Monday my mother came round, horrible stepfather was in the car outside with my sister. I was angry about that...but thinking back to how she acted, what she said...I'm thinking more and more that she was saying goodbye to me.
My grandparents had their anniversary party today. Mum didn't come to collect me. She didn't call, didn't text, nothing. There has been no contact since Monday. I'm beginning to think he made her do it, that he came along to make sure she did.
I'm really really sad. I'm tempted to text to say that I know it was goodbye...I'm feeling so so down. I have an appointment on Wednesday for a counselling assessment. I'm worried because it is with a social worker...they won't take my babies from me will they?
So like I said, Monday my mother came round, horrible stepfather was in the car outside with my sister. I was angry about that...but thinking back to how she acted, what she said...I'm thinking more and more that she was saying goodbye to me.
My grandparents had their anniversary party today. Mum didn't come to collect me. She didn't call, didn't text, nothing. There has been no contact since Monday. I'm beginning to think he made her do it, that he came along to make sure she did.
I'm really really sad. I'm tempted to text to say that I know it was goodbye...I'm feeling so so down. I have an appointment on Wednesday for a counselling assessment. I'm worried because it is with a social worker...they won't take my babies from me will they?
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I feel so dirty and used I was drunk and passed out at a party when I came around some guy was on top of me rapeing me he covered my mouth and told me to shut up afterwards he got up and got dressed and said I better not tell anyone I found my friend and reported that I had been raped after having medical checks and them getting DNA I've taken the morning after pill IAM just so depressed and...
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Upon his departure, he remarked, "I am in many people’s pockets; no one will believe you." Have you ever grappled with the silence that follows sexual assault, where the perceived impossibility of being believed necessitates self-censorship?
I don't see why they'd take your babies away if you're able to keep them (her?) washed and fed and are not flying into murderous rages. I think you lost your mum so you're scared of losing your babies but it doesn't seem like a realistic fear. Don't even mention the possibility, and don't talk like you can't take care of day to day stuff. Unless you really can't.
How's your mother in law? Can she help out a bit when the new baby comes?
Warm thoughts and hugs.
Its good to hear how much support you have.