Sexual Abuse Support Group
Sexual abuse is a relative cultural term used to describe sexual relations and behavior between two or more parties which are considered criminally and/or morally offensive. Different types of sexual abuse involve: Non-consensual, forced physical sexual behavior such as rape, incest or sexual assault, or psychological forms of abuse, such as verbal sexual behavior or...
a few times ive had to sit
and see a film where the sceans in it
were traumatic to me,sceans of rape and abuse
or where the door closes and the events are left to the veiwrs mind to fill in with a sound track.
i have a quite a few situations where ive been confronted with this and at the time other people were with me whatching the film
i had to sit there in pretend im not affected at all by it so i dont give anything away while inside im dieing over it and trying to not be destroyed infront of everyone.
if i left it would atract to much
atension and questions
i think everyone here gets that
i just wanted you know your not alone.
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and see a film where the sceans in it
were traumatic to me,sceans of rape and abuse
or where the door closes and the events are left to the veiwrs mind to fill in with a sound track.
i have a quite a few situations where ive been confronted with this and at the time other people were with me whatching the film
i had to sit there in pretend im not affected at all by it so i dont give anything away while inside im dieing over it and trying to not be destroyed infront of everyone.
if i left it would atract to much
atension and questions
i think everyone here gets that
i just wanted you know your not alone.
x
the "I cant" post
im quite bad in text and im having a hard time trying to say the right things to help
or at least spread the word that the post is there ok
it would mean a lot
x
I saw a rape scene on tv the day after I was first abused and it was sickening to watch. There was another movie with a graphic rape scene and I stormed out of the room and got a bit hysterical and cried. I think I even got upset watching a movie where a teemage guy and girl were having consentual sex for the first time with each other. This was because my first time was with my dad and I had missed out on that.
So u are not alone. I try to avoid violent movies especially if they have sexual abuse. If such a scene comes up I fast forward or caver my eyes.
You could always make an excuse to leave like going to the toilet or getting some munchies or just avoid watching such movies. Usually u can tell if a movie may have that in it.
If someone wants to watch a movie with me around, I now ask what they are watching and if it is going to bother me I will dismiss myself from watching and just say this is not my kind of intertaiment. You do not have to subject yourself to things you do not like or agree with and stating my opinion I believe has educated them. My husband used to watch movies with all that crap in them and now realises that as long as we watch movies like that they will continue to make them and mess up the minds of the young.
Some people who have never been subjected to abuse of a sexual or physical nature just dont' link it to reality as we do. But I also don't think we have to help promote these kinds of movies.
With love!