Sexual Abuse Support Group
Sexual abuse is a relative cultural term used to describe sexual relations and behavior between two or more parties which are considered criminally and/or morally offensive. Different types of sexual abuse involve: Non-consensual, forced physical sexual behavior such as rape, incest or sexual assault, or psychological forms of abuse, such as verbal sexual behavior or...
ok im not so sure about this but tell me what you think?
ok well my mum told me the other day that when i was younger like baby/ toddler
and i came home from visiting my real father, that i was always upset and wouldnt let anyone go near my nappy. like i was scared or something.
also i have never felt a bond with him. and i always felt uncomfortable with him. especially when i was alone with him.
i hated it when he took me home and gave me a hug and kiss. i just wanted him to get off.
and when he said i love you i could never say it back. i just dont feel anything for apart from hate. as when i was a little older he never botherd with me, and the fact that when he was told i was sexually assulted by my uncle he didnt care and wasnt there for me.
he is like a stranger to me,
but anyway im not sure. can u tell me what you think about it.
ok well my mum told me the other day that when i was younger like baby/ toddler
and i came home from visiting my real father, that i was always upset and wouldnt let anyone go near my nappy. like i was scared or something.
also i have never felt a bond with him. and i always felt uncomfortable with him. especially when i was alone with him.
i hated it when he took me home and gave me a hug and kiss. i just wanted him to get off.
and when he said i love you i could never say it back. i just dont feel anything for apart from hate. as when i was a little older he never botherd with me, and the fact that when he was told i was sexually assulted by my uncle he didnt care and wasnt there for me.
he is like a stranger to me,
but anyway im not sure. can u tell me what you think about it.
I would talk to a therapist and possibly work on making that inner child within stronger so maybe you will remember more. If you don't understand the inner child, what commonly happens is the child you are during the abuse actually takes the information that he/she is feeling at that time and because you are so young your mind does not know how to process such traumatic acts. So that is unprocessed information, which is held basically in a holding box. When we work on making our inner child feel protected and secure many times we start to recall what actually happened. This can also be done through a therapy called EMDR therapy!!
Hugs to you!! You should still think about getting some therapy for the lack of bonding with your father..many times we tend to find someone that repeats that cycle to us in marriage. also for the sexual assault by your uncle..
With love!!