Sexual Abuse Support Group

Sexual abuse is a relative cultural term used to describe sexual relations and behavior between two or more parties which are considered criminally and/or morally offensive. Different types of sexual abuse involve: Non-consensual, forced physical sexual behavior such as rape, incest or sexual assault, or psychological forms of abuse, such as verbal sexual behavior or...

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avoid things that r good 4 me

getnbedr
getnbedr
why do i avoid things that are good for me, and do things that are bad? and even knowing i do these things, i still do them. i hate that. cananybody relate to that?
deleted_user
deleted_user
That happens sometimes when you aren't sure of things...I did/do that with my ex. I know that he is no good but I always go back.

You just have to be self motivated to do what is right, and have discipline. You have to want to do what is right.

Find something that you LOVE and is a good thing to do...and do that thing you LOVE when you want to do those not so good things. Or even call a friend..when you feel that you just have to do something bad.

You can do what is right as long as you want to and put your mind to it. You will get through it...everyone makes mistakes. And it's okay to, as long as you learn from those mistakes and NOT make the same ones.

Good luck!
deleted_user
deleted_user
i can totally relate. My life is a constant battle to be nice to myself. I intentionally do things that I know are no good for me. Its really hard to get to the point were you feel that you deserve those good things, were you aren't afraid of letting yourself have them. I guess it gets easier over time as you learn how your experiences have affected you.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I do the same thing...it drives my friends so crazy. They'll say that like I shouldn't cut myself, and I'll say they're right but I'm going to do it anyway. And we'll go out and do things that could obviously kill us...jumping off buildings, jumping off really high boats, drag racing, etc. But none of my friends really value their lives, so we talk about how stupid it would be to do something and then go do it.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Yes i can relate to that. It a daily struggle for me to do the right thing. In my case i do bad things so i hurt my self. it hard to accept things that are good because we don't believe we deserve it .