Hello, I'm here as a concern partner. After 1 year of relationship i found my partner watching porn. He said then he had an addiction and has been watching it since he was 13. I offered to help him, with therapy, someone from church, support groups anything. He said he could stop by himself. Two years later it hasn't stopped or got better. He constantly looked for porn, found ways to watch it without me knowing, paid for dating websites to watch porn, bought an ipod to keep in his truck to watch porn, created fake profiles on social media to watch porn. Every time i found out something new he said he had a problem and needed help and then he would say " i don't have a problem, i don't watch porn" because he hasn't done it in two weeks. He hasn't been able to stop, I found out he paid subscriptions on onlyfans and lied about it and treats me like I'm crazy for thinking he could do that. Then he admits it all and wants help. And then again a week passed and he says " i don't have a problem ". I don't know what to do!

i want to help him but he keeps refusing my help and keeps playing with my feelings so i don't leave him.