Hey Jimmy first I want to let you know that your not alone. You definitely came to the right place because there are a lot of really cool people here that will support you and have a bunch of encouraging stories. I’m only on day two on my recovery from porn and masturbation and I can tell you as well that the temptation doesn’t go away as easily as I’d like it to. The main thing is, you gotta keep yourself occupied so that way you don’t fall into temptation. What devices are you using? Set up blockers and parental locks as a first safe way to stop yourself. However, secondly you need to find a hobby or something to keep you away from your device that you use. Whether that is reading your Bible and spending time in prayer, working out, or finding something else that interests you, you have to find something. I know with our current situation it makes it harder than ever to be out and do things, but we have to work with what we have. I think something else I’ve learned is that you have to want this. You have to put in the effort because no one can do it for you. However, you should also rejoice in the fact that you’re not alone. These people here will support you and maybe you’ll even be on here trying to support others. I hope you have a good day and that God blesses you on this journey.

Stop worrying about tomorrows relapse and tomorrows sex with self.
Stop looking at past failures.
You only need to stay clean and sober for today.
Pray in the morning ask your greater power help you stay clean and sober for today. If you feel weak pray out loud for help and comfort.
Know why you are going for your "FIX".
Pray before you fall to sleep.
Work out and start reading the bible.

Welcome to the group. As it has been said you are not alone in this. I have tried and failed many times to stop pornography use in my life. I told myself it wasn't a problem, I stopped doing it every day from when I was a teenager, but I still did it and I lied to my wife about it.

It's important to have goals, both long and short term. You also have to look at yourself and how you feel like you managed to quit other things in your life. Was it cold turkey, weaning, mix of both? As important as it is to quit if you have a problem, it's also important to reflect and find what makes you turn to porn in the first place.

That's how I have been going on a month without masturbating and porn. I pretty much hit a rock bottom of sorts, I'm stopping cold turkey, I have the love and support of my wife, this group, therapy, counseling, spirituality, meetings. All of it is in an effort to understand why I would turn to porn, how it has affected my development with relationships and sex.

Focus on yourself as a person, we are all capable of doing great and wonderful things in life. I feel like in order to do that we also need to be able to understand ourselves and find what works for us individually to get there.

You have my support as well as the support of everyone here, we are all here for you.

First off, welcome to Daily Strength, JimmyWhite. Thank you for sharing with us.
When I first tried to quit, a day or two seemed to be my limit. After getting more determined, and more upset with myself, I could only make it two weeks before failing, and it was a frustrating cycle. Something that helped me was learning not to be mad at myself about it, about failing. The group and its members helped me see and remember that every moment not using is a victory. That combined with the support to learn myself, and eventually, learn to accept myself really helped tremendously. For me, learning to be kind and respectful to myself was very important. Learning more about myself was inevitably a powerful tool.
I let people I trusted in on my problem, and having them there to route for me was also very helpful. They keep track of the days and weeks like I do, and it's helps me a great deal. But find things that work for you, it might take a while to find your most beneficial footing against this problem, but give yourself that time and grace to get there.