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A place for those of us with non existent (or dwindling) sex lives to gather. Whether it is to share just how you are feeling or what you miss, or crave or fantasize about (or perhaps have tried with unexpected results?)… I am hoping to find somewhere for those of us fellow "horntoads" to come and chat when we are incredibly lonely and our toys are not enough to keep...

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Group Founderveggiequeen
veggiequeen

Someone brought this to mind this morning.  I was discussing my "HALO". hahaha  As bold and outspoken as I have gotten with some close friends and many on here, there are others who I feel I have to control my thoughts and what I say. Some who have no clue and just go through the motions--- and my older sister who has become a controlling holy roller. (Funny thing is, long ago she was a bit on "the other side" too.  She did sow her oats when younger. I missed all that. )


So I was curious... have all of you got that "role " to play with certain people?   (After all, I don't wanna shock everybody.   Just most. wink, wink)  My cousin,  BIL, nephew , niece and brother have a clue now.. and they just smile and wink.  but sis is another story.   :O 

Group Founderveggiequeen
veggiequeen
BTW my late husband was also on that safe list as he made many efforts to make me feel like a horn toed pervert. So I never went there anymore. Unfortunately, when he did walk in on me, he took full advantage then again to rub it in. (Thus now I refer to myself as a fellow horn toad. lol) ribbit.
Bubbabiker
Bubbabiker
We all should be open on this forum to discuss sex no matter how detailed or vulgar it can be. Sex should be raw and animalistic, not clinical and sterile.
Don't know if anything changed but years ago on this website the sex forum did get pretty wild.

So speak you mind, we're all ears!!
Group Founderveggiequeen
veggiequeen
Well then....careful what you wish for. (Very big evil grin here)
looking2bhappy
looking2bhappy
I have that role to play with my hubby’s family. They are very conservative and already think I’m a bad influence on him. I have not let out much around them at all, I think they would have heart attacks if I let loose. I was more conservative with my husband in the beginning but the past 5-10 years I have been more open with him. He’s just not on the same page as me. He wants to make love (not often though) and I want wild passionate sex.
Community Leaderbobinmaine
bobinmaine
I haven't been in the sex group in awhile so I have no idea if it is still as wild as it use to be but I can remember some topics that were....,,,,interesting, to say the least like, from men, "Does size really matter?" which is a topic that would seem to come from every new male member. ....or like this one from women...."Am I wrong to desire pain from my husband during sex?" The fifty shades movie was probably written from information contained in those kind of posts.

I have had enough life experiences so that I don't get shocked anymore and am more apt to just accept others where they are in life.

We are all here in this life to learn so we all need the freedom to choose what we feel we need to do to be happy...

~~~Peace~~~
Deo-Volente
Deo-Volente
Might be missing something obvious here, and may regret asking ... but what's a HALO?
Group Founderveggiequeen
veggiequeen
Because I am such a sweet innocent angel. (As I bat my eyes. Lol)
Deo-Volente
Deo-Volente
Now i'm just confused lol
Group Founderveggiequeen
veggiequeen
Deo I apologize for confusing you. I was simply asking if there are some people that you feel you can open up and say what's on your mind (even if it is a bit flirty or dirty minded because they do the same) -- while there are others who are more judgy and prim and proper where you feel you have to "behave" around ?

When I mentioned the halo, I was being a bit of a smart ass as most on here know I have been a poor deprived soul for most of my life and have discovered (and decided) I want desperately to discover even some of what I have missed (in both life--- and sex) I joked about my "halo" (what pure sweet innocent angels do wear on their heads) Afraid I am far from that these days (in my thoughts and fantasies anyway. ) Forgive me for any confusion. I am afraid I do have a goofy sense of humor sometimes.
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