Sex On The Brain Community Group

A place for those of us with non existent (or dwindling) sex lives to gather. Whether it is to share just how you are feeling or what you miss, or crave or fantasize about (or perhaps have tried with unexpected results?)… I am hoping to find somewhere for those of us fellow "horntoads" to come and chat when we are incredibly lonely and our toys are not enough to keep...

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Group Founderveggiequeen
veggiequeen

Just how incredibly empty and alone I do feel. I was making dinner and I had the tv up in the next room. Free HBO and Cinemax. Turned on outlander and was listening to that. Then I did think I heard some heavy breathing. I come in to find some deep passionate hot and steamy sex.  I watch for a minute or two and then turn thechannel and go sadly about in my kitchen making dinner  (thinking back to the days when my first did want to distract me and come up behind me and nibble on my ear and kiss the side of my neck. ) 


These days. I know not to expect anything.  I am afraid it just kind of brought it all home again and this incredible ache and emptiness is pulling me into my funk. Forgive me for going on about this again here.  I just have nowhere to go with this.

Anna1212
Anna1212
I think I understand how you feel. That's really painful. I hope this intense feeling will pass soon. Maybe things can change for the better for you. Don't give up hope.
MaryContrary
MaryContrary
I watched a couple of minutes of sex yesterday too. Then turned away.
MaryContrary
MaryContrary
It is a cold, windy, and rainy day but I would get nekkid and have sex with "him" in a minute if I could! Sort of horny today....Where are you mystery man!!!!!
Group Founderveggiequeen
veggiequeen
They are all far far away. :(
jeffneedshelp
jeffneedshelp
Total turn off for me right now. I hate my body and I feel like I’m broken. Mental leading to physical. Just when I think bad can’t get worse, it does. I hate to admit it. Sad in SoCal!
Group Founderveggiequeen
veggiequeen
I don't know but am feeling like we may have our very own land of the misfits (instead of wounded or unwanted toys-- we are a sad crew of incredibly lonely and untouched people who still want and need to be touched and more. WE NEED IT BAD! lol
Community Leaderbobinmaine
bobinmaine
I felt like that one day.....but it was a long time ago.

Just before Christmas, I went to a grocery store to pick up a few things, and just outside the door, there was a woman asking for donations for something....I don't remember what it was but when she asked me, I told her I would give her 5 bucks in exchange for a hug which I got but then she said something that sounded a little sarcastic like, "Little boy needs a hug" which kinda made me feel like, maybe I should never have said that because what I was doing is projecting my feelings of being trapped onto her and making her feel trapped!

Lesson learned!

God Bless
Group Founderveggiequeen
veggiequeen
Maybe she was justifying her hugging a stranger to someone passing by. Not sure what her problem was--- hell I give hugs away for free! Like smiles--- they are contagious. :)
MaryContrary
MaryContrary
A hug should be free and given with care. That woman way wrong to say anything. If she didn't want to give a hug, she should have just said she didn't do that, but thanked him for the donation.
tmillerofde
tmillerofde
i feel the same way.. i'm so lonely most times i could scream. even when i manage to get the few handful of people i know to get together to play a board game or whatever they still mostly talk amongst themselves like they're their own little clique or something.. i try and join in on the conversation but mostly just get ignored and it sucks.. it makes me not to want to bother inviting them over any more. mostly i think they just come over cause i always make sure to have food and drinks just cause it's my place so i feel like it's my responsibility to be a good host and make sure everyone is provided for.. -sighs-

i dont know.. we're supposed to get together this weekend but this time out at one of the other guy's places but i already had someone email me asking me what was i going to be bringing for everyone to eat.. -.-

i'm thinking i'm prolly not going to go..
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