Senior Dating & Sexuality Support Group
This community is intended for senior to discuss senior dating and sexuality, and the specific issues that arise for seniors, such as starting over as a widow or widower.
stableone
I just joined this senior group because I feel I fall thru the cracks basically. I am not quite a senior, but I am not someone waiting for my "husband to be" to come along. Not going to happen! Hasn't yet, and won't. Not even sure I am dissappointed by that. Companionship is where it is at, and I will never allow another one to come near me and screw me up again. Just easier to not let them in in the FIRST place!! SO there I be.
Just a comment. And if I sound angry I most likely am, but that doesn't change the fact I am most likely better off alone. And abstinate or celibate whatever you would call it at this point. I know I can live without it. Maybe it is hormones, maybe it is my anti depressant, but I know sex is not something I need, and more often than not has caused problems and heartache for me anyway...
Just a comment. And if I sound angry I most likely am, but that doesn't change the fact I am most likely better off alone. And abstinate or celibate whatever you would call it at this point. I know I can live without it. Maybe it is hormones, maybe it is my anti depressant, but I know sex is not something I need, and more often than not has caused problems and heartache for me anyway...
deleted_user
I can relate to what you are saying....sure has been a bumpy road for me. But...I have had 1 or two wonderful experiences with men and that I why I have hope for you and for me. I am not looking to get married, but I would like a companion to do things with. Someone who shares my values. Someone who would be someone I could share my family and friends with. I have found that thru my past relationship, I have found out what I would like to have in a new relationship and because of my experiences and age, i am not so needy as I was when I was younger. That feels good. Would love to hear from you.
deleted_user
I have a book called Mama Gina's Guide to the Womanly Arts. (I think that's the title). It made me look at men and relationships from a new perspective. The book talks about a woman celebrating her sexuality. Yes, meds can affect sexual drive. You're too young to abstinate from intimacy.
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