Ummm Rod??? That's not a sign that's an absolute message that she is no longer interested in you at this time. It's a sucky way to do things but I hear this all the time from women. "Oh I just stopped calling him, answering his calls, IMs, and text messages and he'll get the hint. I can always call later if I change my mind". Whimpy women can't be direct. Good luck to you whatever you're looking for.

She probably feels angry and resentful right now ... or she may be grateful ... who knows? Moving on is probably the best thing for you. Two people in a relationship should have some things in common and sex is a pretty big thing to be so out-of-sinc with.
As for your comment about women not wanting it as much or having different thoughts, I wish more women & men both would understand how much more there is to having fun with each other that doesn't include ... um ... how to say this? ... insertion? ... ok, you understand ... lots of fun can be had without it for both people. When I hear stories about how women are too dry and it hurts after a certain age, I wonder about them. There's lubricants ... duh! But I think it's mostly an excuse. If you like sex, you'll find a way to continue enjoying it forever.

i meant to say hubbys was bigger than anyones i had seen except that one . god he would turn over in his grave if he knew i was discussing this . well he might be proud .

He probably would be proud ... it seems men are more concerned on how they measure up against other men then we are!

Men are so predictable! Sex really isn't the only thing worthwhile in life and isn't something I want to be thinking of all the time. Life is full of learning and creating and loving and caring. Besides, why would I want a 70 year old man when I'm 70? Or even a 50 year old man? And you'd be surprised at how easily it is to get a 20 something if we want it. LOL

Patti, did you look at ImHungry's profile. Says he's a 14 y/o male. Responding to a child's point of view isn't what this community is about. It would be really nice if there was more male input in addition to the couple that have shared here. I have always found the male mytique baffling and yet interesting.

Sorry ... never expected such an occurrance at this place so didn't check profile. I will in the future! Thanks for warning me.

It's a shame that there is no way to filter out those people who only come to spam, spread emails and unfortunately this is the ONLY site I come to and my spam mail has increased 10000%. I've made it my policy to look at a person's profile before I response to anything - friendships, journals, communities. I enjoy this site so much but there are tons of young children here too and I hope those who are seriously looking for help find it. For the others this is just another breeding ground for their sick compulsions while hiding behind a screen.

Stableone,
I am 52 years old. I hope that G-d sends us all the right person at the right time. Bevi