Self-Injury Support Group
Whether you or someone you know or love struggles with self-injury, this is the community to discuss your experience, find support, meet others going through the same, and get advice on how to stop. Working together, we can help find alternative coping skills to reduce the urge to self-harm.
So I have a clinical psychology class in college. And our teacher is a clinical psychologist, like has patients helps them out and so on. Well the problem with this is we get to see the inside look of what therapists realy think about there patients.... and i DONT like this. Maybe i would if what i found out was that he realy wants to help people or what not. But OMG he pisses me the fuck off. Ok like he is a giant smart ass pokes fun at stuff whatever no biggy i have a sense of humor it funny. but like he crosses the line. like he sits there and says he refuses to deal with borderlines because they are crazy and he cant deal with them... WTF ?!?! and stis there and makes fun of borderlines, now im not borderline but this realy irritated me because what if some one in our room was ya know.. and he tells stories of his patients giving away some important details of who they are like never names but will say oh an art teacher in girard... well we have one school in girard so geee i wonder who that is?? and the most recent one that pissed me off was today
today we are talking about diassociative identity disorder adn how self injury is a symptom of this sometimes... than he goes you know the gril who gets in a fight with her husband and than he leaves and she calls him and tells him to come home goes in the bathroom fills a bath slits her wrists while listening to music.... and wnats him to walk in on her so he will save her and love her... ya thats self injury.... and than procedes to say the ones that die are the ones who husbands dont come home and laughs...... and that is the image he just gave to our http://www.dailystrength.org/component/option,com_joomlaboard/Itemid,53/func,post/catid,666/do,reply/type,1entire class of self injury... fucking seriously?!?! like i was half expecting him to go no actualy most self injurers go at great lengths to hide there cuts and scars cause they are so god damn ashamed.... nope nope not at all
what the fuck?!?! i get so pissed about self injury and its stereotype and a supposed fucking professional just added fuel to the fire... and if this is realy what therapists and psychologists think then why do they say they dont... im so fucking irritated right now.. sorry for the vulgar language... am i right to feel this way... or am i just being an overly sensitive babby>
today we are talking about diassociative identity disorder adn how self injury is a symptom of this sometimes... than he goes you know the gril who gets in a fight with her husband and than he leaves and she calls him and tells him to come home goes in the bathroom fills a bath slits her wrists while listening to music.... and wnats him to walk in on her so he will save her and love her... ya thats self injury.... and than procedes to say the ones that die are the ones who husbands dont come home and laughs...... and that is the image he just gave to our http://www.dailystrength.org/component/option,com_joomlaboard/Itemid,53/func,post/catid,666/do,reply/type,1entire class of self injury... fucking seriously?!?! like i was half expecting him to go no actualy most self injurers go at great lengths to hide there cuts and scars cause they are so god damn ashamed.... nope nope not at all
what the fuck?!?! i get so pissed about self injury and its stereotype and a supposed fucking professional just added fuel to the fire... and if this is realy what therapists and psychologists think then why do they say they dont... im so fucking irritated right now.. sorry for the vulgar language... am i right to feel this way... or am i just being an overly sensitive babby>
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My 6mo twin DD's are EBF and just started rice cereal on the first. Everything has been going fine except this morning one of them had a diaper rash (lots of redness around her anus). I read this as one of the signs of an allergy. BUT I did just buy a different brand diaper yesterday (which they have used randomly before w/no issues). Do you think its the cereal or the diaper? Im ready to start...
I do know that alot of therapists who treat people such as myself do find it difficult, i have talked to my therapist about this before.
BPD after many years is starting to be recognised more. Becuase of the lack of knowledge and research within the medical field, doctors don't know alot about it. They know that DBT therapy is the way to treat it but that's really about it.
I was dx with BPD when i was 18, i'm now 27 and have just started to get the right help.
He sounds like an ignorant fucking idiot. SI is also something docs don't understand. Because of the wide range of reasons people do it they seems to come to their own conclusions.
Going back to the BPD, SI is one of the diagnostic criteria. Many doctors think we do it for attention cos attention seeking can be part of BPD too. So they see the SI as an attention thing.
Personally i have never ever cut for attention in my life. I have BPD, i struggle with SI. Those doctors don't so when they say things like that, they can fuck off.
A few years ago i was taking something, can't remember what now. I told them i was addicted to it, they told me that it was impossible. I asked her if she had ever taken it and she said no, i said how would you know then. She told me there was research to back it up, i said well they didn't test it on me did they. She couldn't say anything to that.