Self-Injury Support Group

Whether you or someone you know or love struggles with self-injury, this is the community to discuss your experience, find support, meet others going through the same, and get advice on how to stop. Working together, we can help find alternative coping skills to reduce the urge to self-harm.

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Icantstop 01/27/2014

So I am with this guy Trey. He has my heart. He loves me and I love him. Well at least I thought he loved me. But just the other night I stopped at McDonalds to send him a quick message to tell him I love him. I made a typo and it changed the word to sex. He took it the wrong way and I got a message back saying WE ARE F*****G THROUGH. IM NOT GONNA BE WITH A WHORE WHO SELLS SEX AT MCDONALDS. It broke my heart so I went home and cut again. Today he sent me a message apologizing asking for me to take him back. I said yes but what am I doing.

guycountry 01/27/2014

I want to say change your mind now. But on the other hand it was a text message that he miss understood and replied automatically. He realized what he had done and did apologize. It doesn't change the fact that he hurt you but at the same time we all have made that mistake once or twice. I don't know what to say but maybe take it slow and talk about what happened. I mean really talk about it and don't just put it on the back burner. But don't tell him you went and cut yourself if he doesn't know that you are a cutter because that could make things worse.

deleted_user 01/27/2014

Everyone makes mistakes.............. His gross overreaction is very disturbing.

Personally it is a huge red flag against him. Perhaps this was a blessing for you to find out early that this guy is just not right.

Icantstop 01/27/2014

He knows I'm a cutter and this isn't the first I've cut because of the him. He always promised not to hurt me ever again. Just the fact that he thought that I would do that just destroyed me.

deleted_user 01/27/2014

the cutting was your choice. he may have been a butt, however - it was your choice.

do not blame him for you cutting. you CAN blame him for being so incredibly UNsupportive. But that is your call. Here is what I know, you made an honest mistake, he blew up. You are a STUNNINGLY attractive girl, you do not need to put up with his crap.

Your call.

Icantstop 01/27/2014

Oh I am not stunningly attractive at all.

deleted_user 01/27/2014

Speaking as a guy - yes you are.

BUT - I do understand how it is hard to see your own "beauty". And I am not going to argue about it either.

Best wishes to you.

Icantstop 01/27/2014

Well thank you. That means a lot that someone could see me like that.

guycountry 01/27/2014

I have to say I agree with uselessme as a bi women you are very attractive.

Icantstop 01/27/2014

That means a lot bein bi to

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