Self-Injury Support Group

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please help me please

freedomlover
freedomlover
last night i cut so many times in my wrist...i couldent control it anymore...it bleed for 3 hours straight and i didnt care...i didnt....on the bus i am getting bullied so much and i cant do anythin about it and its slowly killing me...but unlike others i can conrtol my temper...but theres also another reason i dont do anything about it...i am umm scared...i cant...everytime someone gets in a fight i try to hide and cower...everytime someone raises a hand i get flashbacks of my dad hitting me and i freeze...the only time i get infront of someone throughing a punch or fighting is when i protect a friend....but what if oneday i freeze and cower i wont be able to help them...i couldent....i want to cut right now so much i just want to slice my arm open...i need the relief...please someone help me please....i dont know what to do anymore
deleted_user
deleted_user
I'm here. I've been bullied so I know the feeling. I'm here if you want to chat
deleted_user
deleted_user
um do you workout or anything, that distracts me for while. watch soemthing funny on tv or just go cook something. find something to do, i know you dont want to,i konw the feeling but push yourself put off hte cutting and maybe you just wont cut for while/or even for day. hugs to you.
deleted_user
deleted_user
btw i cut alot today.
i konw it feels like you wanna keep going, but plz try to push yourself to do something else okay. try to heal some, if you just have to cut. put it off okay? plz.
i kow its hard, push yourself. :)
deleted_user
deleted_user
it's okay to freeze, that happends to a lot of people. Actually its a lot safer then getting in the middle every time that you see a fight. Don't be so hard on yourself. Everything is going to be okay
deleted_user
deleted_user
bullying can drive you mad and it aparently has. However it cant kill you. Sorry but i'm a lil sentive on ppl sayin somethins killen them. Tell your princapal trust me its for the best.
sleepykitten
sleepykitten
Hmm, teenagers can be very insensitive to each other, it upsets me that you've been through so much already with your dad and then your getting all this shit in school. I wish I could do something but I'm here to listen if you ever want to moan about it x
deleted_user
deleted_user
Hi there, Sory that you are having such a hard time at the moment.
I understand how hard it is to deal with bullies, but please try to tell someone about it, someone at school that can do something about it.
I was bullied a bit when I was at school and now, I would never have believed that I could be bullied; I am assertive and speak my mind, yet I was bullied by my boss. It crushed me and I thought that everyone would believe him rather than me, it was a horrible experience and I eventually left my job, because I couldn't face him again.
The truth is that there are reports in our newspapers every week, where a young person has killed themselves because they were being bullied. Don't become a statistic!!
Please get some help - is there a friend that you can ask to come with you to report it so that you feel supported.
PM me if I can be of any help.
In the meantime, try to keep safe.

Lyn