Self-Injury Support Group
Whether you or someone you know or love struggles with self-injury, this is the community to discuss your experience, find support, meet others going through the same, and get advice on how to stop. Working together, we can help find alternative coping skills to reduce the urge to self-harm.
I feel really weird about talking about this online :S (i did post this in another group idk if thats okay)
my bf was aloud to stay over tonight and we are both legal but my parents are really strict so to put it bluntly, giving him a handjob and he falls asleep. i felt so inadequate like i wasnt good enough to keep him awake. :/ i dont want opinions on how to help this i just wanted to rant :/
this is really not going to help my other issues. i already know im gunna wanna cut after this.
my bf was aloud to stay over tonight and we are both legal but my parents are really strict so to put it bluntly, giving him a handjob and he falls asleep. i felt so inadequate like i wasnt good enough to keep him awake. :/ i dont want opinions on how to help this i just wanted to rant :/
this is really not going to help my other issues. i already know im gunna wanna cut after this.
One time, when we were dating, my husband accidentally hit me in the butt when we were having sex. It hurt so much I screamed and writhed in pain and after that he would not say a word to me. He did not explain what happened, or apologize to me, or tell me anything at all . . . I was so freaked out and confused. I even tried to apologize to him . . . later he explained that he was so upset by having hurt me he could not think of anything to say. He was so freaked out himself that he just locked up.
I know that doesn't really relate; I just had another story to add!
yer one minute he was all worked up the next he was asleep.
-hugs- i bet that was hard him locking himself up and not saying anything... very confusing :)
http://www.scienceline.org/2006/09/ask-wenner-sex/
if you read to the very end (or perhaps just skip there?) ...
nah, please read your way to the end cos this touches on another source of annoyance for many women
please try not to cut over this, it probably has little to do with you and everyting to do with male brain chemistry
: -(
i'll read it all thanks for the help :D
and hope your damage heals quickly
thanks for the kind words :)
i hope it heals quickly too in one sense. if it takes a while it takes the edge of wanting to do it again.