I'm sorry I have a problem with you younger folks being on this particular Board, I just don't think its appropriate.

Here's a website where you can get a lot of Information about Self-Harm and how to deal with it and stop it. I wish you well.

halfofus.com

go to the tab at the top that says, "Dealing With" then in the drop down menu select Self Injury.

i was actually told by a therapist to use this group, but thanks.

Yeah they have a list of groups they give out. But this self-injury board is used by adults who have way more experience with Self Injury and there have been instances of younger folks asking for better ways to cut, better tools to use, better ways to hide it.....and that is not what this site is for. Just by reading some of the Posts I believe it gives you younger folks ideas that you don't need.

I've been a cutter on and off for 31 years and BiPolar for 28, I have a lifetime of experience with these things, and I know what I'm talking about. I'm also a Clinical Psychologist as well as a Patient.

i’m sorry, but i don’t agree with that. you don’t have to be a certain age to cut. you don’t have to be a certain age to be depressed, or to have “experience”. this group is used as a coping mechanism and to support each other, hence the name. and i’m not looking for ways to hide it or better ways to do it. i’m looking for help. i’m looking for support. i’m looking for a better way to get my sadness out. i’m looking for people who go through this much like me. i’m looking for ways to get myself better.

This board doesn't say: only adults on it. I'm 64 yrs old and I welcome the younger person, when is a better time than when you are young, to get help!

Now about the cutting, I was a cutter and still think about it when I am stressed. I believe my reason for cutting was my way of releasing a lot of pent up anger and emotions that I could not get rid of any other way. Please talk to someone, not just your best friend. Friends always care but quite often do not understand what you are going through. Talk to your parents or teacher about talking to a therapist. Above all don't let it get you down and remember that there are a lot more of us then you would ever imagine. Will be thinking about you.

you took what I said out of context. and the great thing about online Support Boards is we don't have to agree, I have my opinion and you have yours and that's fine. I'm sure others will help you figure it out. I'm not going to argue the point with you and add to your stress. So good luck, I truly hope that you find safer coping skills to deal with your emotional issues.

I was that age when I started. But u need to maybe figure out what made u start cutting in the first place. Do u know?

i was in a fight with everyone from school, i was alone. my best friend and i got into a fight and suddenly everyone excluded me from things

How are things now with your best friend?
Things get very overwhelming in high school, and sometimes it seems like you are all alone when you just need to take a couple of steps back and look at things from a different view. Realize that things get better with time and you just have to ride it out. Do your best and go from there. In the mean time try to occupy your time in a positive manner, exercise of any type, projects, reading, and any hobbies that you have or would like to pursue. I am not saying that this has not been traumatic for you, I understand your feelings. Remember there is always a better day coming! Thinking of you.

the best friend and i are still very close.
i’ve been trying to do that stuff, but it seems like it’s just getting worse and it’s consumed my life. thank you though❤️

Remember: It takes a lot more guts to stick around than to give up!!
Please be strong and stubborn and keep getting back up.
I've been through a lot in my life, living with an abusive man for 20 yrs.,
and most recently losing my leg. I am no stronger than you or anyone else, I just am too stubborn to give up! Things do come along that make it all worth it,
even if its just a fun night with friends. I will keep an eye out for your posts.

First of all, I saw another person's replies and I have to say,

Mental illness does not discriminate amongst age, and regardless of diverse opinion, they should've kept their mouth shut. Now is not the time for that type of behavior.

If this friend knows and is supportive, maybe you should tell them of this situation of yours. They could help you in the long run, right? However that's up to you. You could always find a purpose for yourself. Something to strive towards, such as a goal for your future, or for recovery as a whole. I wish you the best of luck.