Rheumatoid Arthritis Support Group
Rheumatoid arthritis is a chronic, inflammatory, multisystem, autoimmune disorder. It is a disabling and painful condition which can lead to substantial loss of mobility due to pain and joint destruction. The disease is also systemic in that it often also affects many extra-articular tissues throughout the body including the skin, blood vessels, heart, lungs, and...

But when you are already on that journey of trying to find the right regimen of medications (DMARDS and biologics that is), it is reasonable to do other things to help you along the way. In a similar way that we have adjunctive therapies, braces, cold packs, hot packs, PT, OT, yoga and meditation, etc, etc, etc, we also sometimes need additional medications to help reduce the pain, or flares. Many talk of needing steroids, or taking celebrex daily, or even needing narcotics. Finding a helper NSAID or some other anti-inflammatory can help while waiting for the big guns to do their thing. We often don't notice dramatic changes with those DMARDS and biologics -- but relief of pain so we can do some things we need or wish to do is immensely important.
I am glad you have found something to help with your symptoms, and know you and your rheum are still working towards treating your RA.
When I posted midway through this thread that I felt defensive, I made it clear that I wasn't quite sure why, and I posted immediately after that I wanted to retract any tone of annoyance from what I'd written. My post wasn't impulsive. I put thought into how to word it. I was genuinely frustrated with what seems like a common occurrence here - having to defend my doctor's / my choices over and over again.
From additional responses to my post, both here and privately, it seems other people have felt this way at times too. Sure, maybe we're all over-sensitive snowflakes. Maybe we're being irrational chickens. You (plural; this is not directed at any individual) can certainly dismiss our reaction and say 'no, this didn't happen, you're wrong." But what's the end goal here? If it's actually support, maybe there's a different approach that would work better.
I'm not particularly concerned for myself here. I've recently reached a point where I am finally learning that when someone's making me feel uncomfortable, AND I examine it carefully and make sure to the best of my ability that I'm not misunderstanding or overreacting, that it's okay to say hey, can we dial this back a little bit please?
But we're going to have people posting here who are in significant pain emotionally and physically, and this will not be the last time that someone, perhaps someone with a much thinner skin than mine, feels defensive. Words matter, and I think they matter doubly to people who are at a low point. I don't think 'support' means nothing but cheerleading and exclamation points and huggy emoticons. I think there's definitely a place for probing questions. But sensitivity to tone can go a long way toward making people feel comfortable enough to stay here. Isn't that what we want to happen?